its not right to sey i love ya if you dont mean it, is it?x_X Options

[NgocQuyen]

ok...so i have a friend...and like...her and her bf have been goin out fer 3 months.... they rarely get to see eachother but its ok because they love eachother right?and thas all that matters but outa tha blue...he str8 break ups with her...and he's all like...'tha long distance thing isnt werking for me' omigosh!!if he really LOVED her like he sed he did...that wouldnt matter would it?! come on pplz....ya gotta give me some luvin....=] atleast tell mehh if im rite or wrong omigosh...seriously...when my friend told me they broke up...i cryed....they were so0o0o cute together!!!!

[EmeraldKnight]

i think its so much freakinq bullshit when people say they love each other when clearly, they don`t, you know? i mean, i`ve said i loved quys a lot in the past, but that was back in what? middle school? screw that haha.. buti can truly say that i love/d someone. i hate it when couples JUST qet toqether and they`re like.. "i LOVE YOU BABY" nd all this other shit. they really need to just shut the fudge up. but anywho, if you don`t really feel/mean it when someone says that they love you, talk it throuqh with them. or that you like them a lot but you don`t love them .. yet? haha 

I dont know.. I think the problem is, that as teenagers, we're not completely sure what love is, and may perceive a crush or infatuation as "love", and yeah.. then the word and the meaning get all mangled and abused.. i mean.. love.. is just so ambiguous, how can one tell if its realli love or not? there's a lot of confusion involved..