she's back now..., wat should i do? Options

[Spec_R]

around november 10th, my girlfriend broke up with me saying that her parents found out that she was dating me. She said her parents thinks she is too young to date and want her to focus in school. I don't know if that's true or not but I trusted her. A few weeks or maybe month later I talked to a few friends hearing that she is dating some other guy. I was very surprise also! I read on my friend's xanga and she said some stuffs but at the end of her comment she wrote "well I gotta go and talk to my baby now, talk to you later." I was like . Is she trying to piss me off or does she really have a boyfriend?

To tell you guys the truth I really love her like a lot. for example
~I stood infront of her house for a hour while in a rainny night with very thin shirt on. I called her "baby, could u please go outside...I'm very cold." She did came out and I just want to give her a hug but knowing that she pushed me away. She said "Evan, It's not the same anymore...I don't have any feelings for you." Sorry if this is unmanly but i cried hard that night. First time I actually cried hard for a girl.
~I went to her house while she's sleeping and wrote 3 pages about my life and us together.
~There are other examples too but those are the only ones i remember.
I had a fight with a couple of people and she was friends with that guy's sister. They broke my car and made $700 worth of damages. I was really mad!
She is friends with my bestfriend's girlfriend. She told her that she know that those guys broke my car and she don't really care. wow those are harsh words. I don't know I think I should get over her and forget her....

So yesturday there was this party. I help set things up and she was there also. At the end everybody danced and had fun. She and her friend was dancing next to me. While she walked out for a phone called I whispered to her friend asking "How is she and her boyfriend doing?" Her friend said "oh, they broke up." I asked "why?" She said" she found out that he was cheating on her" In my mind i was like I knew that was going to happen.
As we had fun more at the end of the night those guys that i hate pushed me and wanted to fight with me. My friends help me out and we left. Later that night she called and asked is if everything was alright? I really don't want to talk to her but I don't know...I kinda do because i miss her. She asked if i want to come over to her house today because her parents are gone. I said "sorry but no thanks" She said "we'll do something some other times then."

It seems like she want to hook back up with me again. But I don't know, she betrayed me and went for another guy. Now all of sudden she comes back. Do you guys think I should go back wit her? I don't know...what to doooo......

[bad_girl]

I'd say don't get back with her unless you're willing to go through this again. Who knows? She's done it once, she can do it again. Er.. they damaged your car, she said she didn't care. How can you forgive someone like that? To me she sounds like a player. It sounds like she's only running back to you because she was dumped (?). Seems like it. Think about it, I dont think she's worth it with regards on how she treated you; like dirt. No offense, but using her parents as an excuse was really lame, she could've done better. & I dont think it's very human-like to tell you to go away when you're clearly dripping wet & cold? But if you really love her.. and true love is hard to find, I dont know. You should probably get back with her if you really love her so much that you no longer care about all the things she's said and done to you that've hurt you. In my opinion though, I dont think you should because she seems really mean & selfish...