emotional abuse, my friend Options

[KERP1UNK]

okay..when i say 'my friend' i REALLY do mean my friend..its not a way of saying that its me..okay but anyway

my friend's parents are really mean to her. they literally say she's not going anywhere in life, she needs to get over herself, blah blah blah, etc. etc...its really wearing down on her and she calls me all the time in tears. she says she's going to the school counselor and wants me to go with her, and i agreed to..but she keeps getting out of it because she is CONVINCED they are going to automatically 'take her away for her parents' or 'put her up for adoption' i have told her multiple times that this won't happen..but she refuses to believe me...
she doesnt do her homework, and thats a reason why her parents are mad at her too (grades) so every day her mom makes her do her homework and she even checks to make sure it is ALL done, emails her teachers, etc... and she turns in the homework but the teacher claims she 'didnt get any of it' and her mom believes her and punishes her by grounding her (its like shes NEVER not grounded) and says really mean things to her... i feel really really bad because im afraid she might go suicidal from all of this stres... plus her little sister is always talking crap about her and cussing at her..and she is the 'favored child' ..her parents always believe her .. i really don't know what to do and i'm scared for her... please help me <33

[Chii]

your friend really does not want to do that rebellion thing...i've been there.

we've all probably been there. you know you're growing up when you hit puberty your parents try to be stricter so you won't get wild and party and have sex and etc. basically, they keep you on a leash so you won't ruin your life at a young age. however parents have to realize that they have to let go sometimes so you can experience life.

your friend needs to realize that if she doesn't get her act together and really focus on school, she's going to have to repeat it and have to endure more crap from her parents. although it does happen, i don't believe that there's some conspiracy between her parents and her teachers where they're both lying about her and the homework thing. why would a teacher lie and get away with it?

whether she likes it or not, she has to do her homework and projects and whatever. just maybe if she did something about what pisses her parents off, they'll shut up about it.


right now, i don't even know when i'm graduating and i will be 18 later this month. i started f*cking up in school in the 10th grade. and i freak out every few minutes about the SATs which i haven't taken, when will i graduate, why the hell did i put myself in ths situation, oh my god i'm going to be 18 and have nothing to show for it. your friend really does not want to end up like me.