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jealous of ex's, is it normal?
anoniez
post Dec 29 2005, 08:59 PM
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is being jealous of your bf/gf's ex(es) normal? why should you feel bad, if they dont care about them anymore? (its different if they do still care, i suppose) what can you do to prevent it?

i can understand why he feels bad when he thinks about me and my ex doing stuff together.. i mean, i was his first kiss but he wasn't mine.. but he gets jealous every time my ex(first boyfriend) is mentioned, even though we dont talk anymore. is there anything i can say to stop him from thinking about it / being jealous about it? i really dont want him to be hurt like this from something that doesnt even exist anymore.
 
 
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post Feb 1 2006, 05:36 PM
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My boyfriend is like that, he likes to joke about me still wanting my ex but I think he kind of believes it too. I definitely don't, but if i try to tell him a funny story or something that happens to have my ex in it, he gets pretty offended pretty fast. Don't mention him very much, and reassure your boyfriend that if you and your ex didn't have problems, you wouldn't be EX'S now would you?
 

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anoniez   jealous of ex's   Dec 29 2005, 08:59 PM
anubis   it's not a pleasant feeling to him, not to men...   Dec 29 2005, 09:22 PM
anoniez   oops.. when i said mentioned, i didnt mean that it...   Dec 29 2005, 09:35 PM
flaymzofice   Like anubis said, it's mostly to do with what ...   Dec 29 2005, 09:50 PM
xoxo_koala_kisses_   Right, but think of it this way: You're prett...   Dec 29 2005, 09:58 PM
anubis   QUOTE(xoxo_koala_kisses_ @ Dec 29 2005, 8:58 ...   Dec 29 2005, 10:07 PM
xoxo_koala_kisses_   Whoops. I guess I got a little confused. It's ...   Dec 29 2005, 10:11 PM
anoniez   hahah, its ok; im sure i can turn that around to s...   Dec 29 2005, 10:33 PM
krnxswat   It's okay. I'm kind of in that situation (...   Dec 29 2005, 11:25 PM
Chii   ugh, my ex used to be like that. i know what it...   Dec 29 2005, 11:38 PM
silver rain   Yeah, I'm in a similar situation but reversed....   Dec 30 2005, 12:51 AM
LittleLulu   i've never dated any men who've had ex...   Dec 30 2005, 05:55 AM
_sarcastic_   QUOTE(Chii @ Dec 29 2005, 11:38 PM) sometimes...   Dec 30 2005, 10:47 AM
da_SALSA   I understand your boyfriend's feelings. I disl...   Dec 31 2005, 12:42 AM
pinayprincess   either the guy is jealous or the girl is jealous [...   Jan 1 2006, 11:53 AM
Zlatko   ....   Feb 1 2006, 11:09 AM
lilxl0ser   maybe he needs some assurance. lols just tell him ...   Feb 1 2006, 02:10 PM
FoxBandCutie08   My boyfriend is like that, he likes to joke about ...   Feb 1 2006, 05:36 PM


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