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Jan 31 2006, 03:05 PM
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![]() omygay ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 186 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 281,195 |
One of my good gay guy friends kinda used me for sex. He knew I liked him and he used that against me. Should I still be friends with him, because I still want to be friends. But he sometimes tells me he wants to be friends with benefits but should I do that after he used me first?
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Jan 31 2006, 04:30 PM
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c[: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
wow he used you and yet you still want to be friends with him? thats just messed up...i mean i guess you could still be friends with him, but is it really worth it? i mean how do you know he's not just going to use you again? if that were me i would never ever talk to someone like that ever again in my life...
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Jan 31 2006, 04:52 PM
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QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Jan 31 2006, 5:30 PM) wow he used you and yet you still want to be friends with him? thats just messed up...i mean i guess you could still be friends with him, but is it really worth it? i mean how do you know he's not just going to use you again? if that were me i would never ever talk to someone like that ever again in my life... You should understand his case. It's hard to stop being friends with someone you've probably known for a long period of time and learned to trust. Afterall, it's not easy letting go. If it were that easy, then I guess we can all just stop being best friends with someone or family with our relatives. How would you feel if the person you relied on and depended on and looked upon just brushed you off like you were a nobody? In Corey's case, he's in a dilemma in which he can either lose his friend or his friendship. |
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Feb 1 2006, 02:38 PM
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QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jan 31 2006, 4:52 PM) You should understand his case. It's hard to stop being friends with someone you've probably known for a long period of time and learned to trust. Afterall, it's not easy letting go. If it were that easy, then I guess we can all just stop being best friends with someone or family with our relatives. How would you feel if the person you relied on and depended on and looked upon just brushed you off like you were a nobody? In Corey's case, he's in a dilemma in which he can either lose his friend or his friendship. so wait a second here...who's the one thats being relied on and depended on here? if its the topic starter's trust thats being tampered with then that should be exactly why he should stop talking to him. if that person is mean enough to mess with his trust then why should he still remain friends with him? |
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fa.ggot Used for sex? Jan 31 2006, 03:05 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK I was confused with your last phrase
If you wa... Jan 31 2006, 03:10 PM
fa.ggot QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Jan 31 2006, 3:30 PM)wow he... Jan 31 2006, 04:47 PM
Acid Bath Slayer 1. What do you want from the friendship?
2. What d... Jan 31 2006, 07:27 PM
AngelicEyz00 Just f**k him. It's a win win situation. He ge... Jan 31 2006, 07:32 PM
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chaneun ^ LOL.
wait, so you had sex with him already? Jan 31 2006, 07:37 PM
priyas he used you. Jan 31 2006, 07:59 PM
dorkk-ie did you like his sex? Feb 1 2006, 01:57 AM
Blow_Don't_SUCK ^My point was... It's difficult for him to let... Feb 1 2006, 02:40 PM
starlette If I was you, I would steer clear. Unless you jus... Feb 1 2006, 03:04 PM
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Elmo's Lover I suggest you find someone else to f**k Feb 1 2006, 04:18 PM
FoxBandCutie08 You should tell him that you're not interested... Feb 1 2006, 05:32 PM
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gr00vyswordsman wow lol...sounds like im in your situation. From r... Mar 26 2007, 08:49 AM
ola says hola you need to talk to him about what you want & ... Mar 26 2007, 11:29 AM
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makin it rain I hope your families are ashamed of you. I know an... Mar 29 2007, 09:37 PM
Shortnsweet88 If I were you I would give myself two options...
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cupcakex You're the one letting him have sex with you.
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&/degradanca. well... it may not have been his intention to use ... Mar 30 2007, 10:08 PM![]() ![]() |