Boyfriend smokes, some advice please? |
| *iNyCxShoRT* |
 Jan 30 2006, 08:54 PM
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Recently I just found out that my boyfriend smokes [since last month]. It kind of disappointed me, but I was willing to support him whatever he decided to do. He told me that he didn't want me to hurt so he said he would stop. He promised me he would. About two days passed and he admitted that he had smoked the day before. He apologized and repromised that this time was for real and he wouldn't do it again. Things were going great for a good 2 weeks. But today, we got into a little arguement because our plans were a little roughed up and he got upset. I tried talking to him but he only walked away, supposively "off to the park, i don't want to hang out with you guys". So I tried my best to have a good time until I finally got to talk to him when I got home. As I was walking home I ran into my friend [whos a highschool bad boy] when he saw me, he was like "Wait!" he told me that my boyfriend was smoking today, [smoking with the highschool bad boy as a matter of fact]. While this was all happening he said that he asked my boyfriend if I approved of this, and my boyfriend just hesitated and went. "Oh...we got into a fight." This disappointed me bacause he promised me he would quit. But he may have been under stress. Should I talk to him about it...or give him another chance, I don't know what to do.
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Jan 31 2006, 10:52 PM
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I've been smoking for roughly a year and a half. Its not easy to quit. I started because someone offered me a cigarette when I was stressed out, and from then on, I sought the relief of a cigarette when there was a lot on my mind. Now that things aren't as stressful as they once were, I can honestly say that cigarettes do nothing to improve things. However, I do enjoy them and I'm in no rush to quit, regardless of what people say to me.
As for a 13 year old smoking, he needs to stop, not because of the health precautions or what people tell him, but because its not worth it to have a petty juvenile criminal record. He can't quit overnight, especially if he's been doing it for a while. However, he'd quit (or cut down) if he really valued your opinion. Trust me, if my girlfriend told me tonight to quit smoking, I'd have to do it. |
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iNyCxShoRT Boyfriend smokes Jan 30 2006, 08:54 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK Even though smoking greatly impacts his life, you ... Jan 30 2006, 08:56 PM
full:O:beans QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jan 30 2006, 6:56... Feb 2 2006, 11:29 PM Levy2k6 i really hate it when ppl type in that font but th... Jan 30 2006, 08:58 PM lidoxangie --------- Jan 30 2006, 09:08 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b What you gotta understand is that its hard to just... Jan 30 2006, 09:21 PM APPLEjuicex hes 13? wow. he could have just cracked under pres... Jan 30 2006, 09:29 PM Shahin I assume he's smoking weed. Right? Jan 30 2006, 09:32 PM AlexusD I used to smoke.... It's really really really ... Jan 30 2006, 10:29 PM Shahin QUOTE(AlexusD @ Jan 30 2006, 7:29 PM)I used t... Jan 31 2006, 01:04 AM dorkk-ie give it some time...
quitting can be hard.. but t... Jan 31 2006, 01:40 AM Shahin QUOTEThings were going great for a good 2 weeks. D... Jan 31 2006, 01:47 AM iNyCxShoRT QUOTE(Shahin @ Jan 31 2006, 1:47 AM)Did he sm... Jan 31 2006, 09:19 PM Shahin QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Jan 31 2006, 6:19 PM)
^Not... Jan 31 2006, 11:13 PM lilxl0ser i would definately talk to him. i mean come on he... Jan 31 2006, 09:27 PM FoxBandCutie08 Wow, that's really young to be smoking already... Jan 31 2006, 09:45 PM not_your_average Wow, I'm 13. I know that you've been tryin... Jan 31 2006, 10:25 PM BrandonSaunders I've been smoking for roughly a year and a hal... Jan 31 2006, 10:52 PM xnofearx ^ I agree with Brandon. Jan 31 2006, 10:57 PM Krunk_Muzik Yeah, can't tell a smoker to just give it up. ... Jan 31 2006, 11:36 PM Shahin QUOTE(Krunk_Muzik @ Jan 31 2006, 8:36 PM)Yeah... Jan 31 2006, 11:59 PM Krunk_Muzik ^^^ They sure are huh? Craving one right now. Feb 1 2006, 12:12 AM Shahin ^^Well, crap. now you got me wanting one..i might ... Feb 1 2006, 12:21 AM bad_girl i think you should leave him alone about it. he ob... Feb 1 2006, 08:36 AM iNyCxShoRT QUOTE(bad_girl @ Feb 1 2006, 8:36 AM)i think ... Feb 3 2006, 08:34 PM BrandonSaunders QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Feb 3 2006, 7:34 PM)
so ar... Feb 4 2006, 01:37 PM BrandonSaunders Marco & Shahin, you haven't lived until yo... Feb 2 2006, 11:52 PM Shahin QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Feb 2 2006, 8:52 PM)M... Feb 3 2006, 12:23 AM BrandonSaunders Satisfaction
Expensive, but rich in every aspect. Feb 3 2006, 12:36 AM Shahin $431.00, eh? I'd hope they were high qual... Feb 3 2006, 12:41 AM Just_Dream Quitting cold turkey is REALLY hard. I mean, it... Feb 3 2006, 02:04 AM Krunk_Muzik Damn, 4 bills. Kinda outta my reach. Maybe over th... Feb 3 2006, 04:58 PM kchalut My fiance smokes as well. He began smoking back in... Feb 4 2006, 06:06 PM BrandonSaunders QUOTE(kchalut @ Feb 4 2006, 5:06 PM)My fiance... Feb 4 2006, 11:25 PM EmmalieV I smoke way less than I did before , I lasted 2 da... Feb 4 2006, 11:29 PM BrandonSaunders QUOTE(EmmalieV @ Feb 4 2006, 10:29 PM)I smoke... Feb 4 2006, 11:35 PM Shahin QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Feb 4 2006, 8:35 PM)I... Feb 5 2006, 03:26 AM Spiritual Winged Aura Call the cops on him and take him to a place to le... Feb 5 2006, 01:32 AM wickedvampire3 smoking is really addictive....but soon his lungs ... Feb 6 2006, 03:47 PM iNyCxShoRT QUOTE(wickedvampire3 @ Feb 6 2006, 3:47 PM)sm... Feb 9 2006, 10:35 PM Shahin ^ Good lord. Feb 6 2006, 08:21 PM not_your_average Well, wickedvampire3 is correct. Feb 6 2006, 08:29 PM Shahin ^ You should figure out what he's smoking. Feb 9 2006, 10:45 PM |
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