loving a girl, just brokeup with my gf to wait... Options

[co0nster421]

hey im new to this forum. anyways i broke it off with my gf a few weeks ago n im jus feeling messed up. well to start off she's 16, and i jus turned 20. i really love her but i feel like the age difference is to0 much. i see her friends look at me and i know what they're thinking: "he's 20, all he wants is sex" anyway i've known her for a long time now and it's hard to deny that urge to... ya kno. so i broke it off before we ever had the chance to... i never wanted things to end this way. she has a bright future and i dont want to mess things up for her. guys can be total @$$holes when they get all pervy. made me realize that love and sex are two different things. she's going through alot at that age and i jus dont think im go0d enough for her. u shouldnt be in love at 16. u should still be having fun and enjoying that hs life. i still wana be a part of her life but im not sure how to talk to her without making her feel... well i need advice

[ryfitaDF]

hey im new to this forum. anyways i broke it off with my gf a few weeks ago n im jus feeling messed up. well to start off she's 16, and i jus turned 20. i really love her but i feel like the age difference is to0 much. i see her friends look at me and i know what they're thinking: "he's 20, all he wants is sex" anyway i've known her for a long time now and it's hard to deny that urge to... ya kno. so i broke it off before we ever had the chance to... i never wanted things to end this way. she has a bright future and i dont want to mess things up for her. guys can be total @$$holes when they get all pervy. made me realize that love and sex are two different things. she's going through alot at that age and i jus dont think im go0d enough for her. u shouldnt be in love at 16. u should still be having fun and enjoying that hs life. i still wana be a part of her life but im not sure how to talk to her without making her feel... well i need advice

i, personally, would have done the same thing. i don't want to have sex with a girlfriend. i just wanna mess around with somone i hardly even know. as for still being a part of her life it's very possible. 3/4ths of the girls i've broken up with i'm still friends with. you need to take a break from talking to her so much (atleast that's what i do) and the more serious of the relationship the longer the breakl should be, or until you're both absolutley 100% SURE you still don't have those feelings for eachother. i know exactly what you mean by saying "love and sex are 2 different things". i broke up w/ my old girl recently for the same reason. it's rough on both but it's necescesary.