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im gonna cry., please help
xo_rock
post Jan 29 2006, 03:48 PM
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month now.
everythings great, and we both love each other alot.
he doesnt treat me bad or anything (so dont be thinking that when you read the rest)

his ex girlfriend has been leaving him comments on myspace being like "ohh i love you so much! we have to hang out soon! remember the good ol days.. when we went out? love your one and only nicole!"




i dont think hes cheating on me since she goes to a differnet school.
but do you think maybe shes just.. being friendly?

i mean i think she knows im going out with him.

i dont know what to do.
 
 
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post Jan 29 2006, 04:23 PM
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To be quite honest, this is nothing to cry about. So the boy has friends. Get over it. I don't mean that to sound harsh, but just being honest. If it bothers you so much then tell him about it. Communication is important in every relationship. Let him know that it bothers you that his ex girlfriend leaves comments like that on his myspace and I bet he'll reassure you there is nothing to worry about. If anything, she probably is just being friendly and even if she does want more, you still shouldn't worry. If you even do worry about it, either a)you don't trust him or b)you're insecure. Also, ask him if he could perhaps let his ex girlfriend know that he is dating someone (you) and that he would appreciate it if she stopped with the comments that said 'i love you' because he thinks they are inappropriate since they are no longer dating. You could even try to talk to the ex girlfriend yourself. Express how you don't like when she leaves comments like that and I'm sure she'll back off as well.
 

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xo_rock   im gonna cry.   Jan 29 2006, 03:48 PM
FLIPxADDICTION   i have the same sorta thing going on except he kee...   Jan 29 2006, 03:53 PM
xo_rock   yeah. this girl had a boyfriend. but i think they ...   Jan 29 2006, 03:59 PM
M1SSxCHR1SSY   To be quite honest, this is nothing to cry about. ...   Jan 29 2006, 04:23 PM
mipadi   Just because his ex-girlfriend still likes him, do...   Jan 29 2006, 04:49 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   QUOTE(mipadi @ Jan 29 2006, 2:49 PM)Just beca...   Jan 29 2006, 04:58 PM
Programmer   wow your insecure...you obviously don't trust ...   Jan 29 2006, 04:57 PM
mouse_3k   tell him bout it. if it dont worry, then b!tch...   Jan 29 2006, 05:56 PM
FoxBandCutie08   Sounds like she's overstepping her boundaries,...   Jan 29 2006, 07:22 PM
_sarcastic_   i went through that before, and realized i was rig...   Jan 29 2006, 08:21 PM
love_angie   i'm sure you have guy friends too. i don't...   Jan 29 2006, 08:33 PM
lilxl0ser   QUOTE(love_angie @ Jan 29 2006, 8:33 PM)i...   Jan 31 2006, 04:33 PM
K!$$   ^ agreed Trust him and let it go for a while. If...   Jan 30 2006, 04:14 AM
AlexusD   look... her ex-gf is sick... she's definetly b...   Jan 30 2006, 05:53 PM
Acid Bath Slayer   You're definately not being hollywood enough. ...   Jan 30 2006, 06:06 PM
xo_rock   QUOTE(Acid Bath Slayer @ Jan 30 2006, 4:06 PM...   Jan 31 2006, 04:29 PM
Acid Bath Slayer   QUOTE(xo_rock @ Jan 31 2006, 4:29 PM)dude. it...   Jan 31 2006, 05:26 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK   QUOTE(Acid Bath Slayer @ Jan 31 2006, 6:26 PM...   Jan 31 2006, 05:27 PM
Acid Bath Slayer   QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jan 31 2006, 5:27...   Jan 31 2006, 05:33 PM
mocassinsx29   but it was funny   Jan 31 2006, 05:31 PM
xo_rock   QUOTE(mocassinsx29 @ Jan 31 2006, 3:31 PM)but...   Jan 31 2006, 05:33 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK   ^Not to me, it wasn't. I think the person who ...   Jan 31 2006, 05:33 PM
Acid Bath Slayer   QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jan 31 2006, 5:33...   Jan 31 2006, 07:24 PM
xl0stxThoughtx   This isn't anything to cry over. Just ask tell...   Jan 31 2006, 06:24 PM
Rachel is love   This should be closed now. The topic starter has s...   Jan 31 2006, 07:41 PM
Acid Bath Slayer   QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Jan 31 2006, 7:41 PM)T...   Feb 1 2006, 01:33 AM
priyas   she probably is saying love you because she likes ...   Jan 31 2006, 08:16 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK   ^Now you're just provoking one.   Feb 1 2006, 01:40 AM
Acid Bath Slayer   QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 1 2006, 1:40 ...   Feb 1 2006, 01:48 AM
Blow_Don't_SUCK   I also need to sleep, but I seem to be glued to t...   Feb 1 2006, 01:49 AM
Acid Bath Slayer   QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 1 2006, 1:49 ...   Feb 1 2006, 01:50 AM
Blow_Don't_SUCK   Ironically we're both stuck on our chairs. Co...   Feb 1 2006, 01:52 AM
Acid Bath Slayer   QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 1 2006, 1:52 ...   Feb 1 2006, 01:59 AM
Blow_Don't_SUCK   oh PLEASE. You have to be PERFECT to not be a hyp...   Feb 1 2006, 02:02 AM
Acid Bath Slayer   QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 1 2006, 2:02 ...   Feb 1 2006, 02:04 AM
Blow_Don't_SUCK   ^But when you contradict yourself, isn't that ...   Feb 1 2006, 02:05 AM
Acid Bath Slayer   QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 1 2006, 2:05 ...   Feb 1 2006, 02:12 AM
Blow_Don't_SUCK   ^I laugh at your anger =D You didn't have to p...   Feb 1 2006, 02:14 AM
Acid Bath Slayer   QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 1 2006, 2:14 ...   Feb 1 2006, 02:18 AM
Blow_Don't_SUCK   ^My reply to that is similar to my reply in the An...   Feb 1 2006, 02:19 AM
Acid Bath Slayer   QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 1 2006, 2:19 ...   Feb 1 2006, 02:24 AM
Blow_Don't_SUCK   HOLY SHIT KIERA IS HERE! NO MORE SPAMMING. Nat...   Feb 1 2006, 02:25 AM
mzkandi   Ok, earlier she said she took the advice so no fur...   Feb 1 2006, 02:25 AM


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