im gonna cry., please help |
im gonna cry., please help |
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month now.
everythings great, and we both love each other alot. he doesnt treat me bad or anything (so dont be thinking that when you read the rest) his ex girlfriend has been leaving him comments on myspace being like "ohh i love you so much! we have to hang out soon! remember the good ol days.. when we went out? love your one and only nicole!" i dont think hes cheating on me since she goes to a differnet school. but do you think maybe shes just.. being friendly? i mean i think she knows im going out with him. i dont know what to do. |
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![]() hello : ) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 ![]() |
To be quite honest, this is nothing to cry about. So the boy has friends. Get over it. I don't mean that to sound harsh, but just being honest. If it bothers you so much then tell him about it. Communication is important in every relationship. Let him know that it bothers you that his ex girlfriend leaves comments like that on his myspace and I bet he'll reassure you there is nothing to worry about. If anything, she probably is just being friendly and even if she does want more, you still shouldn't worry. If you even do worry about it, either a)you don't trust him or b)you're insecure. Also, ask him if he could perhaps let his ex girlfriend know that he is dating someone (you) and that he would appreciate it if she stopped with the comments that said 'i love you' because he thinks they are inappropriate since they are no longer dating. You could even try to talk to the ex girlfriend yourself. Express how you don't like when she leaves comments like that and I'm sure she'll back off as well.
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