confused bout my relationship, dunno wat to do. Options

[michael52087]

i been going out with this girl for over a month now...i didnt even like her at all...but she liked me so we started going out. as time went by i liked her cuz i started caring for her alot cuz she was my gf...but i guess when our relationship hit the 3 week point....it seemed like she got bored of me...we use to talk on the phone alot...everyday...and almost everynight before we fall asleep. and couple of nights ago we talked on the phone...she chose to talk to her friends over me.

right now she is partyin it up in another town with her old high school friend....for a couple of days...and i know she is a big flirt and a big party girl. so im kinda worried. but now she doesnt even call me and we barely talk anymore...and when i call her...she tells me she is gonna call me but she never calls me bak...its been 2 days we havent talked.

miss her like crazy...kinda hurt. how she chooses her friends over me. cuz im pretty emotional when it comes to relationship. and its kinda messed up how some girls like to play with guys feelings. i wish my feelings werent so soft hearted and more cold hearted like alot of guys...cuz it bugs me alot. (can't sleep, can't stop worrying)

wat do u guys think i should do. or wat do u girls think she is thinking or doing?

[michael52087]

talk to her and see how she feels. i don't mean to sound mean or anything but it probably won't end that pretty. if she's a party girl then you know that it's nearly impossible for her to stay in a relationship but i could be wrong. whatever you do, don't just wait it out and hope she'll just come back one day like nothing happened.

i'm really sorry. something similar like that happened to me so i can just imagine how you probably feel right now. it's alright, if she's going to treat you like that then maybe she's just not worth it.

if only there weren't people like that, right?
i hope you feel better 

yea foh realz...if only there weren't people like dat...=\

or they should seperate society and keep all the not so commited people that likes to mess around in one group and all the better hearted, emotional people in one group so we can tell who is who...before dating dem....dat would be so nice.

talk it out with her. if not, go out partying. and do what she does. that way you wont feel as guilty because your both partying.

that's wat im gonna do...but i dont think that bothers her..but i think our relationship is very odd. =\

yea, im the same way when it comes to relationships, emotional, but thats not bad now-a-days. most guys that are cold hearted are a-holes and most times think with their d**ks. and dont say i dont know what im talking about, im almost eighteen and am on a football team, i know how the guys think, believeeee me.

right now i wish i am a a-hole so i dont give a shi*

^ he didn't say that he didn't want her back, he just wants her to be the way she was before (talking on the phone w/ him everyday, etc).

yea i didnt even like her at all when i first met her...she liked me...and asked me out and i was just like...uhhh ok....and den just grew to like her...and cared for her and everything cuz dats my job as a bf. but didnt know she would turn out like dis....

if you don't even want her back then what's the problem? just call her up and be like, "i'm sorry, i can't be in a relationship with you. i just can't see myself with you anymore." if she asks why, then tell her.

relationships aren't rainbows and sunshine. people get hurt, no relationship is hurt free. there are fights and misunderstandings. when you find someone who is worth your time, you'll be able to get through all that and be able to keep a healthy relationship.

i might really consider saying that to her.