Gynecologist Performed Virginity Test?, Please Help!!! Options

[JackIsBack]

See, me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 4 months now. And I was in trouble and snuck out to see her today and my mom called her mom and they talked for like an hour about like EVERYTHING!!! And well, her mom told my mom that she had scheduled an appointment with a gynecologist for my girlfriend to see if she was still a virgin. And im really concerned about this, I know that she is still a virgin because I am her first real virgin and we havent had sex. But see, I have been looking up stuff about this so called virginity test that these gynecologists can perform, and most sources said that it can only see if the hymen has been shredded. And I read that that can happen from anywhere from having sex, to tampon use, to riding a bike. So if hers is like already broken because of something else then the gynecologist will tell her mom that she is not a virgin and she will probaly never be allowed to see me again. And I love her with all my heart and cannot let this happen. I dont even want her to have to put through that, what can I do? And what can she do?

[voguelove]

What kind of evidence would he show her?

And I read that that can happen from anywhere from having sex, to tampon use, to riding a bike.

that.. ^^

Both males and females lose their virginity when they first have sex. A common way a female tears her hymen is when she first has sex and loses her virginity. The hymen is made up of tissue that will sometimes bleed when it is torn, but there are other ways to break a female hymen aside from sex, for example sport activities such as horseback riding. Sometimes a female never tears her hymen because the opening is large enough to accommodate a penis. Remember that hymens come in different shapes and sizes, and the loss of virginity does not equal hymen breakage.

The hymen, or "maidenhead," is a thin, fleshy membrane that in some girls and young women is found at the opening to the vagina. The hymen has a central perforation, which can be round or elongated, through which menstrual blood will flow.
For a long time, it was believed that an intact hymen was evidence of a girl's virginity, as the hymen posed a barrier to sexual intercourse.

Some girls who are still virgins have no hymen at all.

Girls who do have a hymen can "break (or pop) their cherry" in a number of differerent ways, sometimes without even knowing it. Some of the non-sexual ways in which a hymen will tear are:

1. Through an accident or injury
2. Horseback riding, bicycling, high jumping, or gymnastics
3. Insertion of finger or instrument by doctor during pelvic exam
4. Tampon insertion
5. Overzealous douching

you could always do research and show your gf's mother.