So theres this guy, right? |
So theres this guy, right? |
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![]() Oh Goddamnit. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,884 ![]() |
I've liked this guy named Eric for the last like 2 years of my life. He's my first real love. Don't laugh and say you're much too young because I know how I feel. But anyways, he still likes his ex, Brittny. But he likes me too. But both me and brittny have gone out with him twice before and pretty much sworn we'd never go out with him again. So he says he doesn't wanna go out with either one of us because he doesn't want to hurt us or himself and he doesnt want to be hated (people would be mad). But I freaking love this kid. I dream about him every night. I want to call him to find out whats going on and maybe work something out but I'm not very good on the phone and I think it'd be awkward. I hate awkward.
I have no clue what to do and any input would be greatly appreciated. |
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![]() Oh Goddamnit. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,884 ![]() |
1. He's the boy version of me! Just kidding, but like he's just. Awesome. He's hot *In my eyes* funny, incredibly smart, informed, just an all round great guy.
2. Because I have trust issues. I don't really trust anyone. I've been hurt before. 3. I just constantly asked him, "Do you still even like me at all?" And he got pissed... 4. No. This is I guess more lust than love. But I still have very strong feelings for him. 5. 13 but don't judge me by my age. 6. Not recently, no. Steven: Oh because we both got hurt (its our faults...) and he's pretty much in my circle of friends, he's the pimp lol. Inycxshort: Maybe I do just miss someone loving me in return. Hmm. |
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![]() in the reverb chamber. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 ![]() |
QUOTE(misskentucky @ Jan 25 2006, 7:36 PM) 1. He's the boy version of me! Just kidding, but like he's just. Awesome. He's hot *In my eyes* funny, incredibly smart, informed, just an all round great guy. 2. Because I have trust issues. I don't really trust anyone. I've been hurt before. 3. I just constantly asked him, "Do you still even like me at all?" And he got pissed... 4. No. This is I guess more lust than love. But I still have very strong feelings for him. 5. 13 but don't judge me by my age. 6. Not recently, no. 1. Alright. And, why can't you two just be friends? 2. Had he done anything that would make you not trust him? 3. Sounds like you're a bit insecure. Don't try to solve that by chasing after a guy. Take some time finding yourself before you go out looking for another relationship. 4. It would be best for both him and yourself if you just moved on. 5. I'm not judging you by your age. Don't worry. I know how much that sucks. The issue here is that you really don't need a romantic relationship right now. It won't likely go anywhere. It will end up hurting you, and maybe even your friends. You have all of your life for that, and there are plenty of fish in the sea. 6. Ask him. If he decides he wants to date at that point, great. Otherwise, take it as a final word. Move on. |
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