not really sure where to go w/this, big flirt? or into me? Options

[resrchmnkygrl6]

ok...so i like this guy, right? <<<classic line<<<

so...he's in two of my classes and we've been talking a lot in btwn classes and during finals week. and what not...at first i was thinking, "oh...he's bobby...he's just a friend."...then a week goes by and we were walking to our lockers (like 3 away from ea.other) and i was walking normal speed and i caught up to him...then he goes, "why'd you speed up?" i'm all, "i didn't this is the way i walk." "he's all..××right××...i know you like me...(jokingly)" from that day on, i didn't really realize how much i ××did×× like him. so a couple of days go by and i'm trying to figure out how to tell him...in a note or face to face...it's friday now and i've written a note. he wasn't there that day, and i dated the letter and everything...so if i give him the letter w/ the date on it, he'll think that i've been thinking about this for a ××really×× long time...so i hold it off and visit his myspace....i'm all, "hey bobby...i need to talk to you on tuesday (mlk day on mon.)...there's been something on my mind i need to talk to you about..." so i wait...two days later...he logs on...no reply...see his myspace again, and he deleted my comment...i'm like, "okay..." i look through his comments and notice that they're all really stupid and really no meaning or coversations going on or anything...so i blow it off...maybe he just wants funny comments, right? tuesday comes around...he's ignoring me. i'm like, "wtf?"...i know that he knows that i need to talk to him...next day....nothing...so i'm all, "okay...i'll ignore you too." couple of days go by and it's friday again...he starts talking to me like nothing happened...××WTF??××...if i knew he didn't like me (like for sure didn't like me) then i wouldn't have a problem...but for some reason i get this strong vibe that he does...iono...should i just let him be or confront him and tell him everything??? help...

[seremela_culnamo]

This sounds like what happened between my crush and I. But we are really close friends just from one class. We are best friends now (after a lot of things with him knowing and such), but before we talked things out, we weren't. We actually only knew one another for a little less than a semester, when he was in my chemistry class last year and his locker was 3 spaces away (what a coincidence with you, eh?), but we were too shy to approach one another.

Anyway, about him ignoring you..that's what happened with my crush. Well I don't know exactly why he was ignoring you, but he was probably having a bad day or something. Or simply a lot of things are going through his mind. My crush wouldn't talk to me a lot one day because of that. Then afterwards, everything will be fine. I was on and off with our friendship, too. Since I would talk to him one day, then pratically ignore him the next or something.

Not knowing the truth kills you, right? Well at least that's with me. Apparently my crush and I, we flirted way too much. Like my friend said, we "unconciously" flirted or something. Then I realize that it was true. We do it in class, too. Meh. Anyway, if you really want to, just write him a letter. It really works if you're shy or whatever, or simply someone like me who can't bring herself to confess everything directly. A letter really helps :] But only do that if you think he has feelings for you. & about the myspace thing, I really have no clue. Ask him if he saw your message throughout the period when you confess to him or simply tell him whatever is on your mind?

Hope that helps!