Want my mom to stop forcing me.. |
Want my mom to stop forcing me.. |
Jan 22 2006, 07:26 PM
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to believe in God and go to Church.
Talked to her already ... but nothing made a difference. How the hell can I do this? |
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Jan 23 2006, 06:40 PM
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Oh Dear, religion is such a touchy subject. I have the same issue m'dear. My mother is a very religious person, but she doesn't talk about it constantly because my father doesn't share the exact same views. Well, my grandparents are scrit baptists, and they want me saved. They've already convinced my brother to be saved, and that's what he believes, but they are begging me. the only that's stopping them from dragging against my will is my father, who says I can make decisions for myself. I was atheist, but i'e thought, and i don't know what I am. I don't excatly believe in a God, but I'm not exactly ruleing out that there is something else out there.
Maybe you should try to explain your reasoning to your family. Explain all the reasons that you have come to this conclusion. if they still don't understand (which from their reactions, I don't think they will), tell them to back off you for awhile. That you have to think about it. That forcing you to go, and trying to force you to beleive, is making you resent Christianity, and that will deem you to hell. So if they really want to help, give you some time> tell them that there are plenty of people who have founf Christ as their savior when they were in their 30's or 40's. That it'll never be too late for you. Grant it, none of this will be true, but if they really believe in the Chrsitian faith, they should accept this answer. And keep a bible by your bed, everytime they walk in at night, open it up and pretend you were reading it. I know this isn't the most honest of solutions, but I don't really think anything else would really work. |
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vehvih Want my mom to stop forcing me.. Jan 22 2006, 07:26 PM
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vehvih ...
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Seco... Jan 22 2006, 08:01 PM
i_liek_sushi damn, are you guys Korean?
Korean people are so ... Jan 22 2006, 08:01 PM
vehvih Well mine's real and not the shit at all. Jan 22 2006, 08:02 PM
vehvih We are not Korean, we are Filipino.
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illumineering What about converting to Buddhism? They don't... Jan 22 2006, 08:12 PM
vehvih I converted myself into an Atheist. Jan 22 2006, 08:58 PM
K!$$ If you talked to her and it didn't make any di... Jan 23 2006, 05:34 AM
yanners well there's not too much you can do. just go... Jan 23 2006, 05:47 AM
xnofearx You don't have to believe in God in order to b... Jan 23 2006, 03:29 PM
richc it doesnt matter
if u call urself a christian
ye... Jan 23 2006, 06:21 PM
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disco infiltrator Instead of taking it in as a bad thing, look at it... Jan 24 2006, 10:47 PM
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Gerifan04 Well you have to look at it from her point of view... Jan 25 2006, 04:13 AM
aznxdreamer if your mom can't understand that not everyone... Jan 25 2006, 07:37 PM
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Boyfriendless At least you don't have the probelm of being a... Feb 2 2006, 02:10 AM
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