in dire need of help!!, crush difficulties Options

[just love me.]

well i just made this account because im lonely and i need the oppinion of you all. i feel as if im alone in the world. i have noone else to turn to so here goes. i have had a major crush on this guy, lets call him... peter. well its been really cold outside and ive been wearing long pants. so anyways i havnt shaved in a month or so. and yesterday i woke up and it was sunny so i put on a skirt and i left for school. well in 3rd period i saw my crush looking at me and laughing. so i turned around and was like wats so funny? and hes like "well a couple of things" and then the teacher made us shutup. so anyways we are doing our math and peter and his friends are laughing and finally i ask again what the heck is so funny? and peters friend says well ur legs are as hairy as an apes and theres toilet paper on ur shoe. it was the most embarressing moment of my life!!!!!! i feel sooo humiliated. i knew i was forgetting something when i left the house and i just had to go in the nasty bathrooms at school! ugh! so yea today i was way too embarresed to even look at him. so what can i do to redeem myself and make him forget this ever happened?!?!

[nightowl89]

^ agreed.

i "liked" a guy who picked on me like peter is on you (not so negatively tho) The next yr (6th) he started to ignore me so I thought i liked him and told him in a note. You know what happend? He thought it was from my best friend and added my name to his "list of girls that like me"

I wish someone had told me how stupid I was being and what a waste of time it was back then. I think back to that year and he had bascially soured the entire year for me. Don't let peter do that. No guy will ever truly like you if you take sh*t from everyone. Slap him, tell him to shut up.

And wedding vows? You honestly so in "love" with this guy to be thinking about this? A guy that trips you and laughs and calls you a lesbian (even jokingly)?

HE IS NOT WORTH IT. If you want him to respect you, you have to respect yourself. I'm sorry if I sound harsh, but I wish someone had given me a reality check back then. Find something you like doing, live for yourself. We're not mocking you, we're just trying to make you open your eyes...your emotions are clouding your judgement right now.