Dealing with Death |
Dealing with Death |
Jan 21 2006, 09:21 AM
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Hey,
I just saw my voice teacher last night and then this morning I got a call saying that her husband had died at 1:00 AM. It doesn't make any sense> He was perfectly healthy. He was out getting something to eat while I was having my lesson last night. I really want to say something or do something to help because she is my favorite teacher and one of my favorite people but I don't even know what I should do or say. How do you help someone you love when someone they loved is dead? Any suggestions are appreciated. |
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Jan 21 2006, 09:50 AM
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Simply be there for the person. A shoulder to cry on. If she wants to have privacy, (in most cases) let her have it. Just simply be there to make her feel wanted or not alone. One day, she'll get back on her life and you helping her go there is already enough.
//edit by the way, this should be moved to relationships. |
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Little Bird Dealing with Death Jan 21 2006, 09:21 AM
mzkandi Moved to Relationships Jan 21 2006, 10:48 AM
K!$$ Like ^x2 said, be there but don't nag her. Jan 21 2006, 10:55 AM
illumineering Sending a sympathy card with a note from you would... Jan 21 2006, 11:23 AM
Hiphop d[-_-]b QUOTE(illumineering @ Jan 21 2006, 9:23 AM)Se... Jan 21 2006, 11:50 AM
Zatanna A few years back, my then assistant's husband ... Jan 21 2006, 12:04 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK QUOTE(Zatanna @ Jan 21 2006, 1:04 PM)A few ye... Jan 21 2006, 06:19 PM
FoxBandCutie08 I think the sympathy card idea is a good one. Writ... Jan 21 2006, 12:26 PM
raenbow* see if you can go to the wake/funeral/anything of ... Jan 23 2006, 03:06 PM
Little Bird Thank you all for the advice. I actually went to v... Jan 24 2006, 05:03 PM
mouse_3k people die, its a part of life. Jan 24 2006, 10:00 PM
glasseyes Well do what everyone else said to do. But be care... Jan 24 2006, 10:44 PM
disco infiltrator If she looks sad or brings it up, simply say, ... Jan 24 2006, 10:48 PM![]() ![]() |