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 Jan 18 2006, 05:39 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness  Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967  |
Alright. I've noticed a change in one of my closest friends. He lost his mom about two months ago, and ever since he's been the same person, but he's completely abandoned his morals.
He's started smoking cigarettes, he's been having more than a few drinks, and earlier today, he was talking about scoring some weed. I finally figured out that this may have something to do with his mother passing, but now I'm stuck. What can I do? What should I do? |
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Jan 19 2006, 12:11 AM
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 I love Havasupai Group: Member Posts: 1,040 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,878 |
QUOTE(SSJ Kenshin @ Jan 18 2006, 6:39 PM) Alright. I've noticed a change in one of my closest friends. He lost his mom about two months ago, and ever since he's been the same person, but he's completely abandoned his morals. He's started smoking cigarettes, he's been having more than a few drinks, and earlier today, he was talking about scoring some weed. I finally figured out that this may have something to do with his mother passing, but now I'm stuck. What can I do? What should I do?  Tell him straight up that you've noticed some changes in his behaviors and say what they are. Ask him why he's doing those things. If he doesn't give you an answer, don't push. If he does, the most helpful thing you can do is listen. Above all else, be his friend. If he starts doing stuff you don't want to, just bail and say you're not into it. Be supportive without compromising your values. |
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SSJ Kenshin Friend Problem Jan 18 2006, 05:39 PM
_sarcastic_ talk it out with him, tell him what's botherin... Jan 19 2006, 06:37 AM ChibiChimomo Yes...hes going through some rough situations righ... Jan 19 2006, 10:32 PM SSJ Kenshin Well, I got him to abandon his weed ambitions, and... Jan 24 2006, 03:10 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b QUOTE(SSJ Kenshin @ Jan 24 2006, 1:10 PM)Well... Jan 26 2006, 09:38 PM iNyCxShoRT You should tell him how you feel about it. Tell hi... Jan 25 2006, 07:16 PM peggysturr Make him feel loved. Be supportive for whatever th... Jan 26 2006, 07:18 PM FoxBandCutie08 He did those things to help him get away from the ... Jan 26 2006, 07:21 PM priyas talk to him. Jan 26 2006, 09:21 PM |
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