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 Jan 16 2006, 08:26 AM
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 baby, be good to me  Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358  |
Now don't get me wrong, I trust my boyfriend with all my heart, but it still bothers me that he is still so close with his ex-girlfriend of nearly a year. He mentions her occasionally looking for a reaction of some sort from me. I don't want to mention it to him because he will think I am being completely ridiculous about it when I have no reason to be. I mean, I still am good friends with my ex and he doesn't show any sign of caring. But it's different, they have so much in common and I can't help but think he might fall for her again. What do you think I should do?
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Jan 16 2006, 09:27 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Well it's natural to feel this way especially if he appears to be best friends with her.. I was in the same situation half a year ago.
I waited it out. Eventually his feelings for her faded out and he focused on me more. But he mentioned her occasionally to see how i would react. When he saw that i didn't react, he didn't either. |
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cleec boyfriend is still close with his ex Jan 16 2006, 08:26 AM
andromeda_90 ^agreed. But if you're really being bothered b... Jan 16 2006, 09:58 AM Levy2k6 I'm sorta in the position of your bf.. i'm... Jan 16 2006, 10:40 AM Kristinaa TALK TALK TALK!
How is he supposed to know th... Jan 16 2006, 10:48 AM _sarcastic_ if you're not feeling alright then why not tel... Jan 16 2006, 11:03 AM lit0chinagirl yup, talk to the boy. see how he feels. i don... Jan 16 2006, 06:25 PM Ilaem trust.
you don't want him thinking your jealou... Jan 16 2006, 06:32 PM iNyCxShoRT I know how you feel; I was going through the same ... Jan 16 2006, 06:36 PM cleec I know you all are right, the obvious choice is to... Jan 16 2006, 08:36 PM
xcaitlinx QUOTE(cleec @ Jan 16 2006, 8:36 PM)And as for... Jan 17 2006, 06:18 PM mzbbc QUOTE(xcaitlinx @ Jan 17 2006, 7:18 PM)that s... Jan 18 2006, 02:53 PM Zatanna Gah. I hate these type of situations. You feel l... Jan 16 2006, 08:56 PM xnofearx I'm close to one of my exes too. It's not ... Jan 17 2006, 02:45 PM Gerifan04 I think what you're feeling is natural and per... Jan 18 2006, 04:12 AM mouse_3k just tell him. Its better to tell him then hide al... Jan 18 2006, 11:20 AM SSJ Kenshin Silence is the Poison that kills relationships. Jan 18 2006, 05:29 PM pastellove_ wow, this is exactly the situation i was/am in.
m... Mar 4 2006, 11:33 PM lilxl0ser i think it's normal for you to feel this way, ... Mar 4 2006, 11:46 PM priyas someones jealous..jk.
iono...their prolly just fri... Mar 5 2006, 12:39 AM niez_cho He's just trying to make you jealous... or pro... Mar 5 2006, 04:37 AM pinayprincess i'm close with my ex... i try not to be selfgi... Mar 5 2006, 11:21 AM |
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