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WONDERWOMAN? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 335 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,636 ![]() |
One of my close guy friends transferred to a different school but we still keep in touch through aim, phonecalls, and texting. We've gotten really close and I've developed feelings for him. We flirt here and there, but he also has a lot of girl friends. I always wonder whether I'm fooling myself with him or not because I'm not sure whether he flirts like he does with his other gal pals. I really want to tell him how I feel, but I don't wanna ruin the friendship we've built. Should I wait a while to tell him how I feel, or just tell him as soon as I can?
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i think you should tell him as soon as possible and see how he feels but if he seems like the type that would feel uncomfortable with knowing that you know him, then maybe you should hold back for awhile and wait it out. if you feel pretty confident that he'll take it well either way-- that is if he likes you or not, then what are you waiting for?! you should go talk to him and see what he wants to do about it. he may be pro or con relationship, which may explain the many other girl friends he has. some people just feel better without it.
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