despratley in need for advice |
 Jan 13 2006, 10:32 PM
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Ok well my dance show was a couple days ago and my "best friend" didnt make it. She tells me that she couldn't take off work cause her mom wouldn't let her cause her job needs people on fridays. Well I kno for a fact that she has never taken a day off from her job since this summer and they would never fire her now cause ppl are dropping like flies, and her mother is pretty nice about this stuff. I feel like she didnt really make much of an effort to show up at my show, or really didnt care. This is prob. the last show I'll ever do this year and she couldnt even make it... Am I overreacting? Because honestly If she were in my shoes I would do anything to make it to her last show. Please I need advice. I have so much steam right now.
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Jan 14 2006, 06:41 PM
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 Dragonfly_babe Group: Member Posts: 274 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 337,380 |
I think you are overreacting a bit. Does she always skip your shows or was it this 1 time? If u really are her best friend u should know that she wouldn't do something to hurt your feelings intentionally. It is a bit selfish to expect people to just come running to you whenever you want. She probably was scared that if she had not shown uo to work she would be fired. I'm sure you mean a lot to her and doesn't realize how much she hurt you.
Think about it as strongly as you feel about dancing she probably feels just as strongly about her own resonsibilities. You should really talk to her and tell her that you were hurt and I'm sure she could do something to make it up to you. |
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Dance_like_poetry despratley in need for advice Jan 13 2006, 10:32 PM
Kristinaa moved to relationships Jan 13 2006, 10:33 PM Programmer best bet would be...your best friend doesn't h... Jan 13 2006, 10:38 PM i_liek_sushi Your best friend doesn't like your pathetic sh... Jan 13 2006, 10:46 PM vash1530 fcuk her!
obviously she dosn't have tou on... Jan 14 2006, 03:12 AM KissMe2408 Well, you said your best friend never has missed w... Jan 14 2006, 05:46 AM
Hiphop d[-_-]b QUOTE(KissMe2408 @ Jan 14 2006, 3:46 AM)Well,... Jan 14 2006, 12:42 PM Dance_like_poetry QUOTE(Kristinaa @ Jan 13 2006, 10:33 PM)moved... Jan 14 2006, 10:09 AM illumineering I wouldn't go either. Since you would bend ov... Jan 14 2006, 05:50 PM lilxl0ser lols it may seem that you're overreacting..i m... Jan 14 2006, 08:10 PM Dance_like_poetry thanks u 3 i never looked at it like that. Well I ... Jan 14 2006, 10:28 PM illumineering QUOTE(Dance_like_poetry @ Jan 14 2006, 11:28 ... Jan 15 2006, 08:02 PM Anime_gurl_4eva [nevermindme] Jan 14 2006, 10:44 PM FoxBandCutie08 I think that she either didn't realize how muc... Jan 15 2006, 01:23 PM |
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