prom date timing, when is the right time to ask someone? |
 Jan 13 2006, 10:59 PM
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 Break My Heart Again.  Group: Official Designer Posts: 480 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 198,983  |
i searched this topic, and didn't find anything. i apologize if i missed it though.
background info: i like this guy. he's a sophomore (i'm a junior), but he's less than 10 months younger than me. he's basically been my closest friend for the last few months. (and i've liked him since late september) however, he also likes one of my best friends, but i know for sure that she doesn't like him (she's also in a long distance relationship that she didn't tell him about.) btw, he's also really shy. i asked him to prom on monday, because everyone has been gearing up for prom around here. (our prom isn't until april 29th though). he basically said that it was too early to decide. i'm kinda unsure whether he really meant that, or if he was just hoping my friend would ask him. since then, he's barely talking to me ( i think he's only said one sentence in my presence since then, and never anything directly to me) therefore, my question is: did i commit a faux pas by inviting him to prom now? and if so, when is the proper time frame to ask someone to prom? (if there is such a thing) i'm curious so that in the future, i might have better timing haha. |
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Jan 14 2006, 03:01 AM
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 sweet abandon Group: Member Posts: 194 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,225 |
I don't think it's ever too early to ask. That way you can prepare. I know that some people won't go shopping for a single thing unless they know what color their date is going to wear.
Anyway, I have a feeling that your friend isn't talking to you because he's probably waiting for his crush to ask him. Maybe you should tell his crush (who's also your friend) that maybe she should confront him about this. It's very unfair of her to lead him on into thinking that he might have a chance with her..espeicially when you're ready and waiting on the sidelines. Hope your prom turns out well! 
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Jan 14 2006, 03:07 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(x_signhere @ Jan 14 2006, 3:01 AM) I don't think it's ever too early to ask. That way you can prepare. I know that some people won't go shopping for a single thing unless they know what color their date is going to wear.  i agree, it is never too early to ask. personally...by him saying that it's too early, that probably means that he doesn't want to go with you...  oh well, who cares, this is just one setback. besides, younger guys are most likely not for you. women mature much faster than men. |
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cheerbee07 prom date timing Jan 13 2006, 10:59 PM
i_liek_sushi I hate it when underclassmen go to senior proms, g... Jan 13 2006, 11:02 PM mzkandi Moved to Relationships Jan 13 2006, 11:02 PM mipadi The protocol of prom is not my area of expertise, ... Jan 13 2006, 11:26 PM Anime_gurl_4eva why would you ask so early? besides, if your best ... Jan 13 2006, 11:50 PM yanners generally people ask around a month or so earlier.... Jan 14 2006, 03:58 AM Levy2k6 i don't like it that the junior is asking out ... Jan 14 2006, 03:49 PM
yanners QUOTE(Levy2k6 @ Jan 15 2006, 4:49 AM)i don... Jan 15 2006, 03:49 AM seremela_culnamo I don't think it's too early to ask. Bette... Jan 14 2006, 04:05 PM lilxl0ser wahhhh!!!!!! who says its ... Jan 14 2006, 08:19 PM lit0chinagirl pshh! it's never too early for anything... Jan 14 2006, 08:24 PM DaTru KataLYST Isnt april for Junior Proms
and May for Senior Pr... Jan 14 2006, 09:17 PM mipadi My school only had one prom, for both seniors and ... Jan 14 2006, 09:18 PM cheerbee07 QUOTE(mipadi @ Jan 14 2006, 10:18 PM)My schoo... Jan 14 2006, 10:54 PM _sarcastic_ maybe he doesn't really want to go to prom Jan 15 2006, 08:48 AM FoxBandCutie08 I do think it's a little early, but I mean gir... Jan 15 2006, 01:17 PM |
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