friend issues. i need help, advice. please. |
 Jan 8 2006, 01:39 AM
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okay here`s how it goes. June `05 my best friend Jessica goes out with our other best friend Robert. She breaks up with her current bf, Daniel, they`d be goin` out for 9 monthes , and she juss breaks up with him juss like that. so then after a week, Jessica breaks up with Robert to go back out with Daniel, bekuz she misses him. so after awhile, i start to have feelings for Robert, which i know is totally wrong, bekuz my best friend went out with him. and Frank (our OTHER best friend) comes out that he is bi and that he is in love with Robert. and little did i know Jessica still liked robert. and then robert started to like me, and when he told Jessica, she got helllaa jealous and he stopped. so she basically ruined my not-so-good-summer to begin with. dun dun dunn. So in July.. the 13th to be exact, my parents decide to up and move from Salinas, CA to Fremont, CA. about 1hr30min apart. really sucks. soooo. i talked to everyone all the time, and i thought i knew everything, but basically Robert replaced me as a best friend, bekuz instead of me always talking with Jessica and being the one she was there for, she went to Robert. thenn. in December, Robert is STILL MADLY IN LOVE WITH JESSICA. Jessica who`s leading him on as a fool, she still has Daniel (and their year anny passsed). Robert goes crazy and tells me he is finally gonna get over jessica, WHICH I HAD THOUGHT HE HAD DONE LIKE MONTHES AGO WHEN I ASKED HIM IS HE HAD AND HE SAID YES. obviously he lied. so thenn, he spills the beans to me. he tells me that him and jessica had phone sex(does that count on cheating?) and then Jessica cheats on Daniel with Robert sometime in October or September(i`m not sure which bekuz they both told me different things). and i`m totally ashamed to even be their friends. so he basically stop liking her and starts to like someone else who we shall call "wide load". well Jessica gets hellllaaa jealous that Robert likes "wide load" and she makes a huge deal about it. deleting him as a friend on myspace, and such. then her boyfriend Daniel gets mad bekuz, why shud she even kare about who Robert likes. so Jessica is being hellaa bitchy to Robert and he is finally getting mad.
BUT NOW. they are talking on the phone a lot. and i`m jusst wondering if its gonna happen all over again? andd shud i tell Daniel that Jessica CHEATED on him for ROBERT? i really need some advice. really complicated. i know. |
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Jan 8 2006, 08:41 PM
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I don't know if you should be the one to tell Daniel about Jessica cheating, it might make things worse. At teh same time I think he deserves to know too, if he's really serious about her. I'd think your best bet is to be there for robert and try to get him to move on from jessica. She does have a bf...I would consider phone sex cheating.
 With time though, things will run their course. Sometimes girls just go through these phases, i have a friend who did. it takes a while for them to get sick of it and wake up from the whirlwind. I dunno if I helped...  Just telling u my thoughts. Hang in there!
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Jan 12 2006, 08:19 PM
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QUOTE(nightowl89 @ Jan 8 2006, 9:41 PM) I don't know if you should be the one to tell Daniel about Jessica cheating, it might make things worse. At teh same time I think he deserves to know too, if he's really serious about her. I'd think your best bet is to be there for robert and try to get him to move on from jessica. She does have a bf...I would consider phone sex cheating. With time though, things will run their course. Sometimes girls just go through these phases, i have a friend who did. it takes a while for them to get sick of it and wake up from the whirlwind. I dunno if I helped... Just telling u my thoughts. Hang in there! I agree. If he's really serious about her, he has the right to know. But don't just be like "HEY! JESSICA CHEATED ON YOU!" Just ask him if he had a friend who was cheated on, would he tell the person. If he says yes, tell him. If not, then... It's your choice. This Robert guy must be great, lol. Good luck! |
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Jan 13 2006, 11:38 PM
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QUOTE(x3Unreachable3x @ Jan 12 2006, 5:19 PM) I agree. If he's really serious about her, he has the right to know. But don't just be like "HEY! JESSICA CHEATED ON YOU!" Just ask him if he had a friend who was cheated on, would he tell the person. If he says yes, tell him. If not, then... It's your choice. This Robert guy must be great, lol. Good luck! yeah i know if he knew Jessica cheated on him with Robert, he`d beat the living sh*t out of robert. i just know it... plus he told me what happened in past relationships. the point is, my best friend sucks. :] |
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