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 Dec 28 2005, 09:54 AM
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ok .. well ive known this guy for about a year .. and we were soo close from the day we've met .. we just started dating like a month ago .. lately ive been thinkin about sex alot .. ( yes im still a virgin) ..before i never really thought about it .. do u think its too soon to have sex? i tried talkin to my best friend .. her and her boyfriend recently broke up .. but i cant talk to her about anything cuz she always talks about her ex .. this is what she told me
HER: ull have sex...and then h e'll break up wit ur ass adn ull wanna kill urself...if u wanna be like me ... go have sex go for it.. HER: look at how i am now ....its pretty shyty rite? HER: well thats wat one year fo being in love can do to u .... if i wouldnt of had sex it wouldnt be AS bad as it is now... HER: so ur choice.... knowin u guys wont be together forever...even tho u would love to... u wont... would u do this to urself ..with my past relationships.. i never even thought about having sex with them or being with them forever .. but this ons is different .. we were talkin the other day and he said as soon as im out of highschool (im 16) we are gettin an appartment and all this stuff .. he has everything planned out .. and yesterday he was talkin to my mom while i was in the shower and he told her that he really loves me and wants to be with me forever and all this stuff ...and he was talkin about everything with her .. can u please give me your opinion? |
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Jan 13 2006, 04:57 PM
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Honestly, if you feel ready.. there's a lot more pressure I think on the whole thing than there needs to be.
At this point in time, If you feel comfortable enough to be with him, then go ahead and be with him. The truth is.. The biggest risk when you have sex is that you both will stop talking and only have interest in one thing. That being said, there is a very good possibility that you will break up in the future, taht it will be hard, and that life will go on. There is also a chance that won't happen. Regardless. You have an oppurtunity to move forward with someone and learn both about yourself, but also about a new self that comes with being with someone. If you are ready, you should go for it. And if you're questioning... you should not. |
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crazi_in_love_08 too soon ? Dec 28 2005, 09:54 AM
_sarcastic_ ^agreed. you are only 16, plenty of time, save it ... Dec 28 2005, 10:30 AM mipadi I think teenagers rush into sexual intercourse too... Dec 28 2005, 01:13 PM
chococat15 QUOTE(mipadi @ Dec 28 2005, 1:13 PM)I think t... Dec 28 2005, 01:34 PM
andromeda_90 QUOTE(mipadi @ Dec 28 2005, 1:13 PM)I think t... Jan 10 2006, 04:10 PM Kristinaa If you're questioning it now, just imagine how... Dec 28 2005, 02:10 PM Ilaem Well, i lost mine when i was 13
But i really wi... Dec 28 2005, 02:47 PM x_angawhomps QUOTE(Ilaem @ Dec 28 2005, 11:47 AM)Well, i l... Jan 6 2006, 01:28 AM chococat15 ^ 13?! Dec 28 2005, 02:48 PM sadolakced acid any doubt is doubt enough.
i say, save it for som... Dec 28 2005, 03:40 PM Rachel is love QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Dec 28 2005, 2:40 PM)... Dec 29 2005, 01:35 PM SimplicityGirl I think that most teens rush into the whole sex th... Dec 28 2005, 03:43 PM wishonthestars toooooooo young. im only 14, but i don't plan ... Dec 29 2005, 12:07 PM krnxswat QUOTE(wishonthestars @ Dec 29 2005, 12:07 PM)... Dec 29 2005, 02:03 PM full:O:beans QUOTE(krnxswat @ Dec 29 2005, 12:03 PM)Sigh. ... Jan 9 2006, 01:01 AM lilliannnn I think about sex alllllllll the time. I believe I... Dec 29 2005, 03:21 PM pinayprincess OHH C'MON! you only speny a month with him... Dec 29 2005, 04:46 PM shawty_redd save it hunny Dec 29 2005, 05:00 PM mzbbc well i think 16 is not too young to be having sex,... Dec 29 2005, 06:37 PM sadolakced acid QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Dec 29 2005, 12:35 PM)... Dec 29 2005, 09:10 PM flaymzofice Similar to the whole 'love' thing, I don... Dec 29 2005, 09:59 PM Shortiiex your relationship is just full of lust
just take i... Dec 29 2005, 11:25 PM Justingamemaster oh yeah, and this is quite dumb if you ask me. Jan 5 2006, 06:36 AM lit0chinagirl yes, like everyone else, i think you're too yo... Jan 5 2006, 10:25 PM mouse_3k QUOTEIn your username you have "08", and... Jan 5 2006, 10:48 PM babygurl_xtacy You can't trust anyone only after a month Jan 5 2006, 10:57 PM M1SSxCHR1SSY If you even have to ask, then YES it's too soo... Jan 6 2006, 01:30 AM cuul_gurl 16 is too early..like most of them say...i'm 2... Jan 6 2006, 02:34 AM vash1530 i dont think this agree with the emphasis on teen ... Jan 6 2006, 03:04 AM s_parker_luver it shows that u have doubt if u asked this questio... Jan 6 2006, 06:13 PM lilxl0ser sometimes...you can learn from other people's ... Jan 6 2006, 09:11 PM FoxBandCutie08 If you think you're mature enough to handle th... Jan 7 2006, 05:18 PM rueyaroo if you want my opinon..this may sound a little bit... Jan 7 2006, 06:01 PM omgah_itsmaggiex well, my perspective of it is like this;;if youre ... Jan 7 2006, 11:53 PM sin_lagrimas well with sex..now a days age isnt much of a barri... Jan 8 2006, 01:18 PM xmorningstar7x I don't think 16 is toooooo young.
But bewa... Jan 8 2006, 02:10 PM x0x_jazi i think that your not ready to.. along with nearly... Jan 9 2006, 02:37 AM Spec_R There is nothing wrong with having sex at a young.... Jan 9 2006, 06:32 PM REBELnDISGUISE I think it's too soon. You don't wanna sta... Jan 12 2006, 12:19 PM 177emories when your young and a virgin i guess you think sex... Jan 12 2006, 05:48 PM mipadi QUOTE(177emories @ Jan 12 2006, 5:48 PM)i... Jan 12 2006, 06:30 PM 177emories i dunno what that means lol Jan 13 2006, 09:20 AM criime scene x you know what threw me off about this story. the f... Jan 18 2006, 05:26 PM |
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