How did u handle it?, For the ppl with major heartbreaks Options

[cuul_gurl]

HOW DID U GUYS REACT WHEN UR RELATIONSHIP BROKE/ WHEN U LOST UR FIRST LOVE?

I know this guy for the past 4 years. He flirted a lot with me, and there was a stage when he said things which would only mean he really really loves me and is serious about me. He moved a few days after he said those things. He's been out of town for 3 years now. We kept in touch (and still do). We were close and i fell in love. He's about 6 years older, and told me he wouldnt b getting married anytime in the near future when i last met him 8 months back. I believed him.
His dad comes and tells me 3 weeks ago, "he's getting married..do u know?" I was shocked. He never told me a thing. I cried, i was devastated.
We have a large common social circle, and happen to b family friends. He called me and clarifyed everything. I realised he all he did was just for timepass. His fiance and I share our name, our birthday and we both can cook and sing well. She's a couple of years elder to me.
I decided to take it well. I told myself i will not cry. Whatever has happened has happened for my good. Maybe i'll find a better person in future. He's not that well off financially. His job has odd timings. Maybe my life holds something better. On the plus side, we can still b friends.
I cant say it doesnt hurt, coz he has gone thru a major transformation. He was lazy, unemployed and a major flirt. He's become more responsible and mature over these 4 years and i'm proud to say i've seen his transformation. And he's the hot topic in my home as well as our social circle. I still feel a stone drop in my somach when someone mentions his name.
I'll take it positive and move on with life..it has taught me one thing..just wait for ur man..he'll come along one day, and u'll know how lucky u r..i'll wait and watch!

[pshaa.shauna]

What did I do? I cried. I cried a lot. I stopped eating actually, not because I was punishing myself, I tried to eat, it just got caught in my throat. I slept less too, insombia. Then I started writing and draiwng, and I felt a lot better.

[REBELnDISGUISE]

What did I do? I cried. I cried a lot. I stopped eating actually, not because I was punishing myself, I tried to eat, it just got caught in my throat. I slept less too, insombia. Then I started writing and draiwng, and I felt a lot better.

Thats the same way with me. Except the drawing part. I mostly wrote poetry. It's been a month and I'm still not over the lost my love. I really loved this person. Its difficult to define love, and to tell the difference between love and lust. For the first time, I actually understood what love meant but I can't explain it. But the other person didn't love me. Lied, cheated, lied about cheating, was so fake, unreal, I hate it, and most of all, I hate myself for being in this situation to being with.