friend issues. i need help, advice. please. |
friend issues. i need help, advice. please. |
![]()
Post
#1
|
|
![]() Brand New Colony ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,078 ![]() |
okay here`s how it goes. June `05 my best friend Jessica goes out with our other best friend Robert. She breaks up with her current bf, Daniel, they`d be goin` out for 9 monthes , and she juss breaks up with him juss like that. so then after a week, Jessica breaks up with Robert to go back out with Daniel, bekuz she misses him. so after awhile, i start to have feelings for Robert, which i know is totally wrong, bekuz my best friend went out with him. and Frank (our OTHER best friend) comes out that he is bi and that he is in love with Robert. and little did i know Jessica still liked robert. and then robert started to like me, and when he told Jessica, she got helllaa jealous and he stopped. so she basically ruined my not-so-good-summer to begin with. dun dun dunn. So in July.. the 13th to be exact, my parents decide to up and move from Salinas, CA to Fremont, CA. about 1hr30min apart. really sucks. soooo. i talked to everyone all the time, and i thought i knew everything, but basically Robert replaced me as a best friend, bekuz instead of me always talking with Jessica and being the one she was there for, she went to Robert. thenn. in December, Robert is STILL MADLY IN LOVE WITH JESSICA. Jessica who`s leading him on as a fool, she still has Daniel (and their year anny passsed). Robert goes crazy and tells me he is finally gonna get over jessica, WHICH I HAD THOUGHT HE HAD DONE LIKE MONTHES AGO WHEN I ASKED HIM IS HE HAD AND HE SAID YES. obviously he lied. so thenn, he spills the beans to me. he tells me that him and jessica had phone sex(does that count on cheating?) and then Jessica cheats on Daniel with Robert sometime in October or September(i`m not sure which bekuz they both told me different things). and i`m totally ashamed to even be their friends. so he basically stop liking her and starts to like someone else who we shall call "wide load". well Jessica gets hellllaaa jealous that Robert likes "wide load" and she makes a huge deal about it. deleting him as a friend on myspace, and such. then her boyfriend Daniel gets mad bekuz, why shud she even kare about who Robert likes. so Jessica is being hellaa bitchy to Robert and he is finally getting mad.
BUT NOW. they are talking on the phone a lot. and i`m jusst wondering if its gonna happen all over again? andd shud i tell Daniel that Jessica CHEATED on him for ROBERT? i really need some advice. really complicated. i know. |
|
|
![]() |
![]()
Post
#2
|
|
![]() Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 ![]() |
Tell Daniel. Your friend Jessica isnt a very good friend or girlfriend. And, I just hope Frank can cope with his feelings for Robert, who obviously does not return them. Tell Robert you like him, and forget about Jessica. She broke up with him, and it was her fault she lost him. If he broke up with her, id understand why you would have a problem getting with Robert. But you shouldnt. Besides she has a boyfriend, who should dump her because she is cheating on him.
(: |
|
|
![]()
Post
#3
|
|
c[: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 ![]() |
QUOTE(Hiphop d[-_-]b @ Jan 8 2006, 2:18 AM) Tell Daniel. Your friend Jessica isnt a very good friend or girlfriend. And, I just hope Frank can cope with his feelings for Robert, who obviously does not return them. Tell Robert you like him, and forget about Jessica. She broke up with him, and it was her fault she lost him. If he broke up with her, id understand why you would have a problem getting with Robert. But you shouldnt. Besides she has a boyfriend, who should dump her because she is cheating on him. (: hehe i completely agree on everything but the whole telling robert you like him part....first of all...robert..in my opinion sounds like a complete IDIOT and a complete MORON for not realising that jessica was just being totally stank towards him and not realising that you were better for him...does that make sense? i mean...since they're both (jessica AND robert) stupid, why not skrew them both over! hahahaa....tell daniel about the whole cheating thing..and FRUCK robert...you deserve someone better... ![]() |
|
|
![]()
Post
#4
|
|
![]() Brand New Colony ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,078 ![]() |
QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Jan 9 2006, 7:21 PM) hehe i completely agree on everything but the whole telling robert you like him part....first of all...robert..in my opinion sounds like a complete IDIOT and a complete MORON for not realising that jessica was just being totally stank towards him and not realising that you were better for him...does that make sense? i mean...since they're both (jessica AND robert) stupid, why not skrew them both over! hahahaa....tell daniel about the whole cheating thing..and FRUCK robert...you deserve someone better... ![]() hey thanks. QUOTE(m.ar.i.a @ Jan 9 2006, 7:13 PM) I don’t think I like Jessica very much :P as a matter of fact, me, frank and robert don't like her much anymore either. we all think she's very selfish, needy, bitchy, etc, etc, etc. My cats dont even like her much. you know, its always been about her. to tell you the truth, she tells me she wants a lot of guys to like her. now i dont know about you but that sounds like just weird to me, considering the fact that SHE ALREADY HAS A BOYFRIEND. not only that, but she wants to basically fit in with the crowd, so she is obsessed about her weight and whatnot. but for 5'0'' and 110lbs, she`s doin well. i suppose. but still not only does frank have a grudge against her now, but robert, and some other friends too! kuz now everyone see's it from my eyes ( i noticed this selfish-bitch-thing like 6 monthes ago, but no one believed me. hahaha WHAT NOW! ). anywho, i`m still debating upon telling daniel. oh and if ya wanna see jessica`s myspace, click here. you tell me, do you think she`s pretty? |
|
|
![]() ![]() |