to be or not to be.., that is the question! (advice anyone?) |
 Jan 8 2006, 07:31 PM
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A guy I knew for a year and I just hooked up, on christmas..
but I'm not too experinced with relationships I know what I want, but not sure what to do.. This is kinda like my best friend I'm with here.. I want whatever will work out for us, (and mostly him..  )So I'm trying to decide Should I make this a playful relationship and just do cutesy things with the guy.. Joke around, hugs and have fun.. So when things end we can easily go back to what we were? And laugh about it? Or should I be serious about us, and if a problem should arise try to work things out, and show how much he means to me/ deeply care about him and do what I can for him? It's so acward, it's like ever since we been together we've been less of best friends and more of strangers.. Should I give it time or is it best if I leave it as it was before? S.O.S! 
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Jan 9 2006, 10:07 PM
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Ahahaha thanks for the advice guys but err..
I can see being playful isn't going to cut it anymore.. It seems like we both secretly desire a serious relationship.. And we're in quite a pickle because I seem to have doubted him when he said "you're special.. I wouldn't want to do anything like leave you.." and err it took a lot of guts saying something like that and I just offended him by somewhat telling him "I don't believe you".. I think he's a bit mad.. But I'll try to handle it on my own from here.. Thanks again! 
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Jan 9 2006, 10:24 PM
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QUOTE(creamyxlicious @ Jan 9 2006, 10:07 PM) Ahahaha thanks for the advice guys but err.. I can see being playful isn't going to cut it anymore.. It seems like we both secretly desire a serious relationship.. And we're in quite a pickle because I seem to have doubted him when he said "you're special.. I wouldn't want to do anything like leave you.." and err it took a lot of guts saying something like that and I just offended him by somewhat telling him "I don't believe you".. I think he's a bit mad.. But I'll try to handle it on my own from here.. Thanks again!  awwhh!!! you did the same exact thing i did awhile ago...gosh..that skrewd my life over big time....if you really care about him PLEASE tell him! hehe i guess its all up to you ;] hehe good luck! 
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creamyxlicious to be or not to be.. Jan 8 2006, 07:31 PM
racoons > you well, it really depend son what you want, and i ce... Jan 8 2006, 07:50 PM _sarcastic_ why not both?
have fun and when you need to be ser... Jan 8 2006, 09:25 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b So, what youre asking is if you should be friends ... Jan 8 2006, 09:33 PM i_liek_sushi let him buy you expensive shit, and leave Jan 8 2006, 09:34 PM xmorningstar7x I say both. Be playful, like you were when you we... Jan 8 2006, 11:13 PM krnxswat You asked us if you should die or live. Jan 9 2006, 10:59 AM
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