to be or not to be.., that is the question! (advice anyone?) |
 Jan 8 2006, 07:31 PM
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A guy I knew for a year and I just hooked up, on christmas..
but I'm not too experinced with relationships I know what I want, but not sure what to do.. This is kinda like my best friend I'm with here.. I want whatever will work out for us, (and mostly him..  )So I'm trying to decide Should I make this a playful relationship and just do cutesy things with the guy.. Joke around, hugs and have fun.. So when things end we can easily go back to what we were? And laugh about it? Or should I be serious about us, and if a problem should arise try to work things out, and show how much he means to me/ deeply care about him and do what I can for him? It's so acward, it's like ever since we been together we've been less of best friends and more of strangers.. Should I give it time or is it best if I leave it as it was before? S.O.S! 
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Jan 8 2006, 09:33 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
So, what youre asking is if you should be friends with benefits, or have a serious relationships.
I think FWB ( friends w/ benefits ) arent a good thing. When you are FWB with someone else, no matter what, feelings will start to happen and someone will get hurt if the other doesnt want a relationship. I think if you like him, try to have a serious relationship. But if you dont like him, dont mess with his heart. |
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