to be or not to be.., that is the question! (advice anyone?) |
to be or not to be.., that is the question! (advice anyone?) |
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A guy I knew for a year and I just hooked up, on christmas..
but I'm not too experinced with relationships I know what I want, but not sure what to do.. This is kinda like my best friend I'm with here.. I want whatever will work out for us, (and mostly him.. ![]() So I'm trying to decide Should I make this a playful relationship and just do cutesy things with the guy.. Joke around, hugs and have fun.. So when things end we can easily go back to what we were? And laugh about it? Or should I be serious about us, and if a problem should arise try to work things out, and show how much he means to me/ deeply care about him and do what I can for him? It's so acward, it's like ever since we been together we've been less of best friends and more of strangers.. Should I give it time or is it best if I leave it as it was before? S.O.S! ![]() |
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why not both?
have fun and when you need to be serious then be serious. i mean you can't just be serious all through your relationship, it's going to be boring you need some fun in there too. once in awhile do cute stuff for him to show him you still care for him. but if you guys are becoming more of strangers, then you should talk it out with him and see what you both want in this relationship. but it's really up to you on how you want your relationship to turn out |
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