Young Relationships., Dramatic? i think so. Options

[Devastation]

Almost all young relationships (12 - 17) always have some sort of drama. Why do we adolescent people deal with it? Alot of those relationships end in about a span of one week to three months. the lucky ones go past that mark. The word love eventually plays a major role in the relationship showing that one "loves" the other. which is entirely bullshizz, or i could be wrong. but in my opinion 95% of the young relationships that take part, are eventually going to die out in that span of one week to three months. the word love is most likely tossed around more than once as a word to describe deep liking. but still.. that's not true love. What is your opinion on our relationships that we have as adolescents?

[anoniez]

OK.. well this is my take on it. Obviously these can't be the only factors.
I think that younger people are much more insecure and "needy" than people in their 20s or 30s.. that's why the word "love" is bandied around, because they feel a need to be loved and needed and to know that they're a big part of someone's life. Drama and accusations of "you don't love me" occur when one person doesn't feel as cared for or feels like their partner is slipping away. A percieved loss of control leads to drama because teens haven't really learned communication skills yet or how to express themselves. e.g., they don't usually think to say "i'm hurt because you did ___", they say "you did ___, so you don't love me."