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Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 293,399 ![]() |
okay i dont really know where to begin,uum theres this guy we had a short thing last year,several months ago,then he changed his mind we we're really good friends before but that happening f**ked things up for ages,i could'nt get over him though,i'm still not,a few months ago we started talking again mainly on msn or seeing eachother out every month or so. I kinda feel we're okay now and can be friends but i want more,but not a relationship. Hes told me alot that he'd just like sex with someone but no relationship. I did always want my first time to be special but now i just feel i want it to be with him,hes had sex before,i've told him how i feel but said i'm not sure. I'll either regret it or regret not doing it. Usually these stupid ideas fade out after a few days with me but this is sticking. So should i sleep with him,knowing their probably wont be any relationship. I want to feel closer to him,but thats obviously not the only reason i would sleep with him,but i'm just basically needing veiws and opinions because i know its probably sounds crazy,but i just need to make a decision.
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![]() Band Geek. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 ![]() |
Wow. Sounds like a real jerk to me.
Sex is way too emotional for people to just do "casually." I think you would immediately regret having sex with him, because it won't be special, and since he doesn't want a relationship you won't be loved or anything in return. He just wants to have sex. He needs to learn to control his hormones. I would definitely say no. |
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