How do you tell someone you're gay?, plz help |
How do you tell someone you're gay?, plz help |
Dec 24 2005, 11:04 AM
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I only discovered that I'm gay a few months ago when I really wanted to kiss my best friend, who is a guy. It freaked me out at first but now I'm not bothered.
Anyway, how I'm I supposed to tell people I know? I think that most of my friends would just act like they don't know me but I don't know what my best friend would do. I really want to stay friends but I also have a crush on him (if you seen him you would too, he's just too cute) and if I tell him I'm gay I'll have to tell him I like him too. So how do I tell people, him especially? |
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Jan 6 2006, 05:51 PM
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Well I told him.
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > HE WANTS TO GO OUT WITH ME! Yeah, this is so cool. He thinks he could be bi too and wants to try going out with a guy to see what it's like! I told him on Tuesday and he did seem confused when I told him I liked him. He said to me, "Why do you like me? I'm really short." I just said to him "So? Who cares about what size you are?" We sat and talked about it for about half an hour. He asked me things like "How long have I known?" and "Why didn't I tell him when I found out?" One question he asked got me kinda nervous. He asked me if I ever dreamed about him. Honestly, I did and still do. Then he asked if I would consider kissing him cuz he wanted to know if he was gay. And I did kiss him. It was my first kiss ever and I loved every second of it and by the look in his face I'd say he did too. Well we've been going out for 3 days and I've already kissed him like a gazillion times. Our parents surprisingly don't really mind as long as we don't kiss in front of them and stuff. I did kiss him in front of my 13 year old brother yesturday and he just kinda freaked. Well he shouldn't have been in my room. Thanks for all the help you guys gave me. Look what happened. I'm sooooo happy I told him! Thanx guys! |
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ayu_ku_fan How do you tell someone you're gay? Dec 24 2005, 11:04 AM
krnxswat there's no good way. whatever you say or howev... Dec 24 2005, 11:30 AM
Hiphop d[-_-]b QUOTE(krnxswat @ Dec 24 2005, 9:30 AM)there... Dec 24 2005, 01:50 PM
iNyCxShoRT QUOTE(krnxswat @ Dec 24 2005, 11:30 AM)there... Dec 25 2005, 02:50 PM
_sarcastic_ what difference does it make if you say it one way... Dec 24 2005, 05:46 PM
mouse_3k "Hi im gay" simple Dec 24 2005, 06:42 PM
krnxswat ^
no. not THAT simple. Dec 24 2005, 06:45 PM
dahding just be honest. don't be like, "i'm g... Dec 24 2005, 10:44 PM
ayu_ku_fan Thanks but how do i tell him? Do I tell him I need... Dec 25 2005, 10:53 AM
andromeda_90 QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 25 2005, 10:53 AM)Than... Dec 31 2005, 09:49 PM
uLoVeMikeRoch QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 24 2005, 11:04 AM)I on... Dec 25 2005, 05:17 PM
ComradeRed Rape them during a camping trip like in Brokeback ... Dec 25 2005, 05:51 PM
ayu_ku_fan QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Dec 25 2005, 11:51 PM)Rape... Dec 26 2005, 02:41 PM
ComradeRed QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 26 2005, 2:41 PM)Eh, t... Dec 26 2005, 08:18 PM
lil_chubby_cheeks2 QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Dec 26 2005, 5:18 PM)So is... Dec 26 2005, 08:26 PM
anubis only tell people if you are truly ready yourself.
... Dec 26 2005, 02:55 PM
ayu_ku_fan QUOTE(anubis @ Dec 26 2005, 8:55 PM)only tell... Dec 26 2005, 03:50 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura Dont even say it ... yet. Wait 'till both of y... Dec 26 2005, 07:16 PM
ayu_ku_fan QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Dec 27 2005, 1:... Dec 27 2005, 12:35 PM
ComradeRed QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 27 2005, 12:35 PM)How ... Dec 27 2005, 02:04 PM
_suzie_ OK heres what u do.
seeing as u only ''d... Dec 27 2005, 03:48 PM
ComradeRed Actually, I'm a guy and if my best friend told... Dec 27 2005, 03:50 PM
ayu_ku_fan QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Dec 27 2005, 9:50 PM)Actua... Dec 28 2005, 08:24 AM
Ilaem Yeah. My friend, just told me the other day she wa... Dec 27 2005, 03:55 PM
Maximum_Tune815 go tell him. "hey.. we've been frds for a... Dec 31 2005, 04:53 AM
tcunningham1589 If your friends know you well enough, especially y... Dec 31 2005, 07:00 AM
ayu_ku_fan Thanx tcunningham1589, that acctuly helps a lot. Dec 31 2005, 09:57 AM
tcunningham1589 You're welcome, I was glad to help. Dec 31 2005, 10:00 AM
ayu_ku_fan thanx for all your help guys. I'll tell him wh... Jan 1 2006, 11:42 AM
sharpandcuddly Speak your mind because those who mind don't m... Jan 1 2006, 04:24 PM
s_parker_luver well. there's no "good ways" to tell... Jan 6 2006, 06:06 PM![]() ![]() |