Should i? Options

[dontwalkaway]

okay i dont really know where to begin,uum theres this guy we had a short thing last year,several months ago,then he changed his mind we we're really good friends before but that happening f**ked things up for ages,i could'nt get over him though,i'm still not,a few months ago we started talking again mainly on msn or seeing eachother out every month or so. I kinda feel we're okay now and can be friends but i want more,but not a relationship. Hes told me alot that he'd just like sex with someone but no relationship. I did always want my first time to be special but now i just feel i want it to be with him,hes had sex before,i've told him how i feel but said i'm not sure. I'll either regret it or regret not doing it. Usually these stupid ideas fade out after a few days with me but this is sticking. So should i sleep with him,knowing their probably wont be any relationship. I want to feel closer to him,but thats obviously not the only reason i would sleep with him,but i'm just basically needing veiws and opinions because i know its probably sounds crazy,but i just need to make a decision.

[*xcaitlinx*]

if i were you, i would definitely not sleep with him. IMO, he's a jerk that just wants to get in your pants. why do you want your first time to be with him? like you said, if you want it to be special then you should wait. having sex can be very complicated and will change everything about your friendship. basically, you want to be friends with benefits, and if you think you're prepared for that type of relationship then go for it. just be prepared to deal with the consequences and hardships that follow.