what do you think, i should do? Options

[sharpandcuddly]

okay here's the deal. i'm with this guy for going on 11 months and im crazy about him, but i get a TINY crush on someone else. being the good girlfriend, I tell my guy and he suggests we take a break so I can figure out what to do. he promises he'll wait for as long as it takes.
fast forward ONE week..
i've figured it out, f**k this other guy, I miss my boyfriend. so I tell him and he says he doesn't love me anymore.
and of course im crushed.
then the next day the other guy asks me out.
i say yes because i figure it will make me feel better.
today, i curiously asked my boyfriend if he missed me. he said no.
and then ten minutes later, the other guy calls and cancels the date.

how can you just..get over someone, in like 7 days?
i don't understand.
and i don't know how to make it stop hurting.

[topsyturvy]

He's probably thinking "once a cheater, always a cheater". Although you weren't really cheating. It was good of you to ask for a break before the crush develops any further.

Either it was really a coincidence or your (ex)boyfriend talked to your (ex)crush.

I think you should wait a while. It'll hurt, a lot. Tell him you learned your lesson and he's the only guy for you (for now anyway). Tell him you still love him and all that stuff. If he's ignoring you because his pride is hurt, then he'll heal slowly and then take you back. If not.. well, you'll know.