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Help, I dunno what to do..
iiTsDAYNA
post Jan 3 2006, 08:03 PM
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3 major IMPORTANT fact: Im shy...very shy...I havent dated...I havent kissed

Ok so theres this guy right.. He is so sweet and I feel like such a BUTHOLE for what I did. Ok so I moved down here(as in mississippi) in august. This guy started liking me and I started liking him... I asked him to come to a pick-nick..and he said yes cuz he likes me. happy.gif so.. after I invited him..I had second thoughts of whether or not I want him to go... blink.gif So I started not talking to him at the pick-nick...I didnt speak to him but once.. pinch.gif after the pick-nick we had a water fight. hehe. biggrin.gif (man does he have a niiice stumoch..) laugh.gif anyways... when school came around he started avoiding me and not talking to me...and called me STUCKUP and im not in anyway stuck up I understand because I felt like such an a$$.. cry.gif We didnt talk to him and he didnt talk to me because he went out and got another girl... _dry.gif I got mad..he was still mad because I didnt talk to him at the pic-nic.. and then we started talking again.....Everything was cool we talked to eachother on the phone for hours. And I started talking to him at school and everything and then the past few weeks I started not talking to him and I dont want to make him feel like I hate him because I dont. I dont! On new years I felt like calling him..but my cousins talked me outta it... _dry.gif and I feel like calling him now and explaining to him that I dont in anyway hate him or dont like him because I really do. ALOT on top of that. I want to go out with him and I dunno if he still feels the same.. so I dunno... what should I do...

O and also...

My mom doesnt want me to date him because in her words hes a "BAD BOY" because he smokes... rolleyes.gif so what. So does my dad. And so does she.
Everyones telling me to forget abotu him...Dont worry you can do better than that...but no other boys have even gave me a clue that they liked me. _unsure.gif so...

I dunno what I should do..

HELP!!!!
 
 
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anoniez
post Jan 5 2006, 06:46 PM
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this looks like an issue of miscommunication. he probably doesn't know you're shy.. if you never told him why you ignored him at the picnic he wouldn't know what to think. Call him, apologize, and say what you posted on here. Emphasize how bad you felt about it and how it was just because you were confused about your feelings for him.. he should understand. I do cause I've accidentally done stuff like that before.. it's mostly cause of shyness and not knowing what to do.. make it very clear that you know you did something wrong, that should soothe his ego (most male egos aren't receptive to being ignored by a female =p) But not too much, otherwise he'll be overly dominating. tongue.gif
The reason all this has happened is because you haven't communicated with him.

Second.. if he already has a girlfriend, I would advise against trying to do anything other than get to be friends with him again. Messing up people's relationships is never really a good decision.

And last.. if he's a smoker.. ew =/ Kissing him will taste like kissing an ashtray. Not to mention all the health problems he'll get. I would stay away, but it's really your decision.
 

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