Help, I dunno what to do.. |
Help, I dunno what to do.. |
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![]() My peanut. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 948 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,456 ![]() |
3 major IMPORTANT fact: Im shy...very shy...I havent dated...I havent kissed
Ok so theres this guy right.. He is so sweet and I feel like such a BUTHOLE for what I did. Ok so I moved down here(as in mississippi) in august. This guy started liking me and I started liking him... I asked him to come to a pick-nick..and he said yes cuz he likes me. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() O and also... My mom doesnt want me to date him because in her words hes a "BAD BOY" because he smokes... ![]() Everyones telling me to forget abotu him...Dont worry you can do better than that...but no other boys have even gave me a clue that they liked me. ![]() I dunno what I should do.. HELP!!!! |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 189 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,312 ![]() |
this looks like an issue of miscommunication. he probably doesn't know you're shy.. if you never told him why you ignored him at the picnic he wouldn't know what to think. Call him, apologize, and say what you posted on here. Emphasize how bad you felt about it and how it was just because you were confused about your feelings for him.. he should understand. I do cause I've accidentally done stuff like that before.. it's mostly cause of shyness and not knowing what to do.. make it very clear that you know you did something wrong, that should soothe his ego (most male egos aren't receptive to being ignored by a female =p) But not too much, otherwise he'll be overly dominating.
![]() The reason all this has happened is because you haven't communicated with him. Second.. if he already has a girlfriend, I would advise against trying to do anything other than get to be friends with him again. Messing up people's relationships is never really a good decision. And last.. if he's a smoker.. ew =/ Kissing him will taste like kissing an ashtray. Not to mention all the health problems he'll get. I would stay away, but it's really your decision. |
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