Help, I dunno what to do.. |
 Jan 3 2006, 08:03 PM
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 My peanut.  Group: Member Posts: 948 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,456  |
3 major IMPORTANT fact: Im shy...very shy...I havent dated...I havent kissed
Ok so theres this guy right.. He is so sweet and I feel like such a BUTHOLE for what I did. Ok so I moved down here(as in mississippi) in august. This guy started liking me and I started liking him... I asked him to come to a pick-nick..and he said yes cuz he likes me.  so.. after I invited him..I had second thoughts of whether or not I want him to go...  So I started not talking to him at the pick-nick...I didnt speak to him but once..  after the pick-nick we had a water fight. hehe.  (man does he have a niiice stumoch..)  anyways... when school came around he started avoiding me and not talking to me...and called me STUCKUP and im not in anyway stuck up I understand because I felt like such an a$$..  We didnt talk to him and he didnt talk to me because he went out and got another girl...  I got mad..he was still mad because I didnt talk to him at the pic-nic.. and then we started talking again.....Everything was cool we talked to eachother on the phone for hours. And I started talking to him at school and everything and then the past few weeks I started not talking to him and I dont want to make him feel like I hate him because I dont. I dont! On new years I felt like calling him..but my cousins talked me outta it... and I feel like calling him now and explaining to him that I dont in anyway hate him or dont like him because I really do. ALOT on top of that. I want to go out with him and I dunno if he still feels the same.. so I dunno... what should I do...O and also... My mom doesnt want me to date him because in her words hes a "BAD BOY" because he smokes...  so what. So does my dad. And so does she.Everyones telling me to forget abotu him...Dont worry you can do better than that...but no other boys have even gave me a clue that they liked me.  so...I dunno what I should do.. HELP!!!! |
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Jan 5 2006, 12:27 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
don't doubt your parent's advice, seriously trust me on this one. i dated this guy for over a year and thought he was wonderful, my parents thought he was crap from the beginning. now it's been a few months after we broke up and i've had to file a police report against him for aggravated harassment.
sure it seems useless to you that your parents are telling you not to date a smoker since they smoke as well but quitting is hard. they should know that and smoking can lead to lots of health problems. dahding was right, you kind of did mess it up with him...you should definately patch things up but if he's still with some other girl, then you have to be just be friends with him. |
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RupertGrintluvr15 Help Jan 3 2006, 08:03 PM
m.ar.i.a uh wow.
you said he had a gf though. did they brea... Jan 3 2006, 10:58 PM _sarcastic_ yeah this probably should go into relationships un... Jan 3 2006, 11:10 PM dahding 1. he smokes. that's not good. and many freaki... Jan 4 2006, 01:00 AM LittleLulu ok first. just because no guys ever told you they ... Jan 4 2006, 02:04 AM anoniez this looks like an issue of miscommunication. he p... Jan 5 2006, 06:46 PM K!$$ QUOTE(dahding @ Jan 4 2006, 1:00 PM)1. he smo... Jan 6 2006, 11:34 AM
FoxBandCutie08 Is smoking that big of a deal to you? I think you ... Jan 15 2006, 08:37 PM |
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