WAT WOULD U DO Options

[insane_designs]

im jus wonderin wat u would do in this situation..

i met this one guy a while back in March of 2005... over spring break... we talked a bit on spring break (lives far away..outta state) and then when school started up we didn't talk for some time..finally he got ahold of me again and we have been going out eversince... the problem is the distance... and the fact that he uses his dad's cell and can't give me the number to call him

He used to call me everyday and we would always talk... (he's 18) but ever since he got this new job.its been less and less... it has been sometimes weeks that we don't talk... i miss him so much.. he constantly says he loves me and i say the same... yet he can't give me his number ... he has this great paying job, is in college, lives on campus, owns two cars (escalade and a truck) yet he can't buy himself a dang phone... so i can call him when i miss calls... wit the phone i have i get such bad reception at times that it won't come thru...or it will b so late that im in bed... i miss him so much that i save his voicemails and constantly replay them... i jus feel like i've been meetin him at least half way..and he isn't makin the greatest effort to do the same

he the greatest guy i've ever met and i don't wanna lose him to this distance thing...(lives in iowa)(im in wisconsin).. it has been about 9 months now and i've loved every minute of it...

i jus don't kno wat to do... i sit up at night..waitin for his calls (if he calls) i try not to fall asleep when he says he'll call at a certain time... i've stayed up till 4 am even tho i knew he wouldnt call me that late.... i jus wish he would put more effort into our relationship.... including us getting together in person...

i kno people say that online relationships don't last...but mine really isn't online ne more... i've taken it offline and can't help thinkin bout him... i can't help wantin him ... i have this feelin that he isn't like all the other guys i've dated..that he's special, he isn't the jerk and treats me like i was the only other one on earth

once he hasn't called since christmas eve..he left me a voice mail that night..he sang to me..i've kept it..and listened to it everday...sometimes more than once...

i wanna stay with him... and get together..and move our relationship forward.. i've wanted to talk to him about this..but when we do talk...that never seems to happen, we usually end up talkin bout something else...its not that im avoiding it...
its also that since he calls so late at time..he doesn't wanna talk for long cuz he has to get to bed himself...

i jus don't kno wat to do
i could use some help

[Chii]

i'm sure i'm not the only one who thinks that he is a lying ass.

it would be impossible for him to have those expensive cars, attend college, have a job and yet not have a cell phone. these days, people like that need a cell phone and if he really did have all that, then he should be able to afford one.

you keep contradicting yourself. how can he treat you like the only other person on earth when you can't even call him, or actually get together with him? especially when you think that he needs to try harder to make the relationship work. those 9 months cannot be bliss filled if he's treating you this way. if you were honestly important to him, than in those 9 months he would have seen you and introduced you to his friends and definately have given you some kind of way to contact him.

greatest guy you ever me? impossible (unless he's the only guy you ever met), he doesn't exude and greatness at all. it's only in your head. take a good look at what he really is, an ass who's full of sh*t.

i think it's just all really shady. you should get out while you can before you really get in way too deep.