what do you think, i should do? Options

[sharpandcuddly]

okay here's the deal. i'm with this guy for going on 11 months and im crazy about him, but i get a TINY crush on someone else. being the good girlfriend, I tell my guy and he suggests we take a break so I can figure out what to do. he promises he'll wait for as long as it takes.
fast forward ONE week..
i've figured it out, f**k this other guy, I miss my boyfriend. so I tell him and he says he doesn't love me anymore.
and of course im crushed.
then the next day the other guy asks me out.
i say yes because i figure it will make me feel better.
today, i curiously asked my boyfriend if he missed me. he said no.
and then ten minutes later, the other guy calls and cancels the date.

how can you just..get over someone, in like 7 days?
i don't understand.
and i don't know how to make it stop hurting.

[LittleLulu]

i agree. it could just be his pride. think about it. if he takes you back right away after taking a break, he could be afraid that you'll think he'll just always be there and therefor value him less.

of course it isn't true, but guys never want to seem clingy/desperate/easy.

if you can't get over him. then talk to him. if he was just making up a front to save his pride then things will be ok. If he really meant what he said about not liking you anymore, then he isn't worth it. No true feelings would vanish in 7 days.