How did u handle it?, For the ppl with major heartbreaks Options

[cuul_gurl]

HOW DID U GUYS REACT WHEN UR RELATIONSHIP BROKE/ WHEN U LOST UR FIRST LOVE?

I know this guy for the past 4 years. He flirted a lot with me, and there was a stage when he said things which would only mean he really really loves me and is serious about me. He moved a few days after he said those things. He's been out of town for 3 years now. We kept in touch (and still do). We were close and i fell in love. He's about 6 years older, and told me he wouldnt b getting married anytime in the near future when i last met him 8 months back. I believed him.
His dad comes and tells me 3 weeks ago, "he's getting married..do u know?" I was shocked. He never told me a thing. I cried, i was devastated.
We have a large common social circle, and happen to b family friends. He called me and clarifyed everything. I realised he all he did was just for timepass. His fiance and I share our name, our birthday and we both can cook and sing well. She's a couple of years elder to me.
I decided to take it well. I told myself i will not cry. Whatever has happened has happened for my good. Maybe i'll find a better person in future. He's not that well off financially. His job has odd timings. Maybe my life holds something better. On the plus side, we can still b friends.
I cant say it doesnt hurt, coz he has gone thru a major transformation. He was lazy, unemployed and a major flirt. He's become more responsible and mature over these 4 years and i'm proud to say i've seen his transformation. And he's the hot topic in my home as well as our social circle. I still feel a stone drop in my somach when someone mentions his name.
I'll take it positive and move on with life..it has taught me one thing..just wait for ur man..he'll come along one day, and u'll know how lucky u r..i'll wait and watch!

[SimplicityGirl]

I was very very very upset over it. He was my first boyfriend and first love. Even though we didn't have a long lasting relationship (we only went out for a month and a bit), it still hurt. I didn't cry at first. I think I was just too numb from all that. I went through school acting normal, but friends knew I was hurting on the inside. But I was determined to never let him have the satisfaction that he hurt me. So I kept it all inside. Then one day, I saw him flirting with another girl at lunch, and I just couldn't take it. Went hom that day and cried. Then the months after...I wrote whenever I thought of him. And I wrote some of the most thought provoking stuff in my life. I kept myself busy and eventually I find myself not thinking about him anymore.