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 Jan 4 2006, 05:13 PM
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okay here's the deal. i'm with this guy for going on 11 months and im crazy about him, but i get a TINY crush on someone else. being the good girlfriend, I tell my guy and he suggests we take a break so I can figure out what to do. he promises he'll wait for as long as it takes.
fast forward ONE week.. i've figured it out, f**k this other guy, I miss my boyfriend. so I tell him and he says he doesn't love me anymore. and of course im crushed. then the next day the other guy asks me out. i say yes because i figure it will make me feel better. today, i curiously asked my boyfriend if he missed me. he said no. and then ten minutes later, the other guy calls and cancels the date. how can you just..get over someone, in like 7 days? i don't understand. and i don't know how to make it stop hurting. |
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Jan 4 2006, 07:01 PM
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oh thanks..
yea. he was always sensitive though. |
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Jan 4 2006, 07:12 PM
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QUOTE(sharpandcuddly @ Jan 4 2006, 6:01 PM) oh thanks.. yea. he was always sensitive though.  Well.. in that case, why don't you tell him how you feel? Talk to him about it.. maybe he just needs space right now or something. Try to keep the possibility of you guys getting back together open in his mind. Figure out whether its that he really doesnt love you anymore, or if its that he was hurt that you had a crush on some other guy since you say he's sensitive. Yeah.. he probably misses you.. no guy wants to say they miss someone who is going out on a date with another guy.. |
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sharpandcuddly what do you think Jan 4 2006, 05:13 PM
anoniez i know what you feel like. insensitivity drives me... Jan 4 2006, 07:01 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b I agree with anoniez. It might be his pride talkin... Jan 4 2006, 08:15 PM _sarcastic_ don't worry about the other guy.
anyway, he ... Jan 4 2006, 09:40 PM mipadi Well, you told him you had a crush on another guy;... Jan 4 2006, 10:31 PM LittleLulu i agree. it could just be his pride. think about i... Jan 5 2006, 05:03 AM K!$$ He's probably thinking "once a cheater, a... Jan 6 2006, 11:52 AM xcaitlinx He obviously never loved you in the first place. Jan 6 2006, 03:39 PM digital.fragrance Forget the other crush.
I've been going out w... Jan 6 2006, 04:51 PM
FoxBandCutie08 The whole, "I will wait for you," thing ... Jan 15 2006, 08:34 PM |
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