what do you think, i should do? Options

[sharpandcuddly]

okay here's the deal. i'm with this guy for going on 11 months and im crazy about him, but i get a TINY crush on someone else. being the good girlfriend, I tell my guy and he suggests we take a break so I can figure out what to do. he promises he'll wait for as long as it takes.
fast forward ONE week..
i've figured it out, f**k this other guy, I miss my boyfriend. so I tell him and he says he doesn't love me anymore.
and of course im crushed.
then the next day the other guy asks me out.
i say yes because i figure it will make me feel better.
today, i curiously asked my boyfriend if he missed me. he said no.
and then ten minutes later, the other guy calls and cancels the date.

how can you just..get over someone, in like 7 days?
i don't understand.
and i don't know how to make it stop hurting.

[anoniez]

i know what you feel like. insensitivity drives me nuts >< my ex said he felt "a little sad" that we broke up.. I'd cried for two months.

Anyway, him saying that he doesn't miss you is probably just his pride talking.. most guys don't want to seem "un-dominant" and not in control which might've been why he said that. I very seriously doubt that he doesn't miss you at all, 11 months is a long time.
However, him suggesting you guys take a break tells me that he might've been getting less enthusiastic about the thing already.. that's one possibility.

I'm not really sure what advice to give you, I'd just say don't get obsessed.. wait awhile. ask him if he thinks it's a possibility that you guys would get back together if you feel like you really love him that much. You could always remind him of his promise but i'd try not to guilt him too much or have too many bad feelings, cause if you guys get back together that'll always be something you remember.