Love At Our Age?, Young love |
Love At Our Age?, Young love |
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![]() tk prt yr hd ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,330 ![]() |
Do you believe in love at our age?Meaning for me around 14-15? And when I say love I mean REAL love. Like true love, not lust, infactuation or sex..I mean like love. Not "omg i think my new bf is cute hehehehehe!!111" Love isn't just a feeling or emotion...it's also going through trials and obstacles with someone and still holding on because you care so much about them. You care about them more than your own self and you can't get them off your mind...do you really think it can be real love? And do you think the feelings of the two people involved can last through everything and never ever fade away?
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This is my personal opinion on it, and even I too am learning how to apply this lesson to my life as I continue to age and grow. Looking back, I realize I was just like all those naive children who'd do anything to be "loved". Little did I know what love really was.
I don't know, but usually when I hear a young girl around the age of 12ish say they're madly in love with this guy who just said "Hi" to them for the first time, and now they feel some major butterflies floating around in their stomach, it makes me stop to wonder if they knew the correct meaning of love or not. Feel is the key word. There's a difference, I think, in saying "I feel like I'm in love with him/her" and saying "I love him/her". Feelings change apparently, so if you treat something as valuable as love like it's fickle, does that mean you only "love" that certain someone on select days? My point is, you're not always going to be happy. You won't always feel down and depressed. And (hopefully) you won't always feel like blowing up the world. I think love is more of a commitment. Dedication. It's a promise that you're going to take care of them when they are sick or hurt, or when they feel like no one listens to them and need someone to talk to. You may not "like" that person you choose to care for one day, or maybe a few days at most, but you'll always "love" them. |
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