define love? Options

[allen]

Have you ever been, like... head-over-heels, fallen in love with someone? Cause I think I have, I'm just not so sure. I mean, it's like, hey- I'm 13, do I really know what love is? There's this person who I'm totally crushing, and I think I'm starting to fall for them. I've known them since like, 4th or 5th grade, and I always kind of thought they were just a friend, until sometime around Christmas last year. I never thought I'd have these feelings for anyone, really, although I did have a major crush on this one girl for like, years. But this time- I really think it's love. *shrugs* Maybe it's just a simple infatuation?

[ryfitaDF]

in my opinion, love shouldn't be taken so seriously. i love alot of people, i know. my definition of love is when somone or something makes you happy so you try to feel good off of it for as long as you can. for example: i was at a party and i was flirting with a cute girl. it was like miniature love because she made me happy and i wanted her to keep making me happy. but people usually go past the limit and don't want somthing to stop making them feel good. that's when they become attached and it's unhealthy. it's the part that people have most trouble with. the best ability to have when it comes to happiness is the ability to let go. and if you think that it's wrong and inhuman of me to bew able to discard feelings with ease, so be it. i'd rather be a happy slut than a sad emo kid er sumthin.