am i a b!tch for breaking up with him..., just because he wasn't going anywhere..? |
 May 13 2004, 08:37 PM
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 !shobe!  Group: Member Posts: 664 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,912  |
i've been with this guy for a really long time..
he works full time now and is very independent and responsible. but he's not going to college.. well.. he was planning to but.. he always allows his father's orders change his plans.. like uhm.. just recently, his dad told him that he wanted him to buy a house for the family.. (btw, his dad doesn't work and my ex is paying for everything in the house) so.. instead of using the money he saved up for college to get an education, he actually follows his dad's orders..!!! i was soo mad when this happened..!! i mean.. he's been delaying his education for such a long time already...!! also, he's addicted to games.....!! well, i do like games but not like him...!! sometimes, he doesn't listen to me just cuz he's playing his silly games.. (well, they aren't silly but he ignores me once he starts!!!) i've been very supportive of him for such a long time already...!!! i gave in to him whenever he asked for stuff.. but like.. it's sooo long already...!! i'm getting tired of worrying so much about him and his future..!! i can't even concentrate on my life and my studies..!!! so.. i broke up with him... but then.. i feel really bad.. i know that he loves me very much.. and i do still love him.. but it doesn't seem like he's going anywhere.. he's still going to be working in the same place, earning the same wages... and he's always going to be controlled by his dad...!!!! so... am i a b!tch for breaking up with him....? |
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May 17 2004, 04:18 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
you're not a bytch for what you did. you have to do what's best for YOU. it doesn't seem you're at the same level in life right now. you have your priorities and he has his. it's his choice to listen to his father and it's his future that'll experience the consequences. there isn't a person in the world that can tell him otherwise. so hopefully he'll realize that there are some things he has to do for himself rather than let his father lead it. but don't let it stop you or hold you back. you still have a long life ahead of you to be upset and constantly worrying about him. let him do what's best for him and you do the same. hopefully it'll work out for the both of you no matter where life leads you -- together or apart.
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aud_chua am i a b!tch for breaking up with him... May 13 2004, 08:37 PM
xjjajeengx No, you are not. You ahve every right to break up ... May 13 2004, 08:45 PM xSuperLazyBoix ow... ...idk i think if hes not gonna get a good ... May 13 2004, 08:49 PM lil boi QUOTE(xSuperLazyBoix @ May 13 2004, 8:49 PM)o... May 13 2004, 08:53 PM xSuperLazyBoix QUOTEi agree
KOOOL lol SOMONE AGREED WITH ME... May 13 2004, 08:54 PM LiNHy POO i dont think you are... he still hasnt got himself... May 13 2004, 09:06 PM instantmusic well, your not a bitch. but if he chooses not to ... May 14 2004, 10:16 AM MissBunni QUOTE(lil boi @ May 13 2004, 8:53 PM)i agree
... May 14 2004, 01:21 PM aud_chua hmmm....... i really feel bad though.. i see him a... May 15 2004, 09:39 PM ThePrincessofTKD well...he didn`t realize what he got `til ... May 15 2004, 09:51 PM conster u'lll probably end up back with him but like i... May 17 2004, 02:58 PM
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