How did u handle it?, For the ppl with major heartbreaks Options

[cuul_gurl]

HOW DID U GUYS REACT WHEN UR RELATIONSHIP BROKE/ WHEN U LOST UR FIRST LOVE?

I know this guy for the past 4 years. He flirted a lot with me, and there was a stage when he said things which would only mean he really really loves me and is serious about me. He moved a few days after he said those things. He's been out of town for 3 years now. We kept in touch (and still do). We were close and i fell in love. He's about 6 years older, and told me he wouldnt b getting married anytime in the near future when i last met him 8 months back. I believed him.
His dad comes and tells me 3 weeks ago, "he's getting married..do u know?" I was shocked. He never told me a thing. I cried, i was devastated.
We have a large common social circle, and happen to b family friends. He called me and clarifyed everything. I realised he all he did was just for timepass. His fiance and I share our name, our birthday and we both can cook and sing well. She's a couple of years elder to me.
I decided to take it well. I told myself i will not cry. Whatever has happened has happened for my good. Maybe i'll find a better person in future. He's not that well off financially. His job has odd timings. Maybe my life holds something better. On the plus side, we can still b friends.
I cant say it doesnt hurt, coz he has gone thru a major transformation. He was lazy, unemployed and a major flirt. He's become more responsible and mature over these 4 years and i'm proud to say i've seen his transformation. And he's the hot topic in my home as well as our social circle. I still feel a stone drop in my somach when someone mentions his name.
I'll take it positive and move on with life..it has taught me one thing..just wait for ur man..he'll come along one day, and u'll know how lucky u r..i'll wait and watch!

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the first one we both actually agreed that it wasn't working out, but he dumped me anyways. i cried every now and then when i think of him, but after half a year? i got over him yeah i know half a year long time. but he was my first love.

i'm currently with my second bf, going through hell right now with him, this relationship is about to fall apart any minute.