parents and dating... problem |
 Dec 30 2005, 02:13 PM
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 You know what that is? It's called love.  Group: Member Posts: 150 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 255,095  |
Ok, well... my parents are toatlly retarted... they tell me that I'm not allowd to date or have a boyfriend until I'm 16, and they are super over-protective with me... but there's this guy, and we only met about 4 months ago, but we are already best friends and so close, much closer than I've been with anyone in my whole life. And we talked about relationships. He told me that he likes me, I told him that I like him back, but he told me that he doesn't want to go out with me or anyone yet, that he doesn't want a girlfriend. He says that once you go out, when you break up you won't be as good of friends. Which is really true. It makes me happy, because I know that it gives me more time.. he doesn't know that I can;t have a boyfriend till I'm 16. But I'm afraid that by the time I'm 16 (about a year and a half from now) that he'll already have a girlfriend and I won't be able to have him, or it'll be too late and he won't like me anymore, he'll like someone else... and if I disobey my parents, they'll know, I can't keep that a secret, so what should I do?
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Dec 30 2005, 10:21 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
oh no. ur going to not have a chance with some guy. boohoo. it's the end of the world. quick, build the bomb shelters and hide.
no dammit. there are plenty more guys in the world. when two people break up, they don't automatically become not as close anymore. it depends on the two people in the relationship. if they're both mature enough to handle the fact that they've broken up, then they should be fine. yeah, they'll be some tension, but hey, just play it off. depends on the people really. don't whine about how ur parents won't let you date until ur 16. they have good reasons for saying so. u really want him? date him. be more discreet about ur relationship. don't flaunt it and be like, "I LOVE HIM!!!!" all over xangas and myspaces and aim and what not. parents know more than they show. specially asian parents (nosy people). just be real hush hush about it around ur parents. don't know how? learn. |
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Jan 1 2006, 09:12 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Dec 30 2005, 5:21 PM) oh no. ur going to not have a chance with some guy. boohoo. it's the end of the world. quick, build the bomb shelters and hide. no dammit. there are plenty more guys in the world. when two people break up, they don't automatically become not as close anymore. it depends on the two people in the relationship. if they're both mature enough to handle the fact that they've broken up, then they should be fine. yeah, they'll be some tension, but hey, just play it off. depends on the people really. don't whine about how ur parents won't let you date until ur 16. they have good reasons for saying so. u really want him? date him. be more discreet about ur relationship. don't flaunt it and be like, "I LOVE HIM!!!!" all over xangas and myspaces and aim and what not. parents know more than they show. specially asian parents (nosy people). just be real hush hush about it around ur parents. don't know how? learn.  Agreed.. When 2 people break up things don't always become really different..Like me and my ex..We broke up, but we're super close friends. And if you want him, but your parents don't allow you, then you can still go out with him, but don't tell your parents. Its one or the other. Tell your parents, and not go out with him, or don't tell your parents and go out with him..I'm going out with someone and my parents kinda know, but they don't care as long as I'm getting good grades, and I'm not having a child soon..So ya.. |
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Jan 2 2006, 01:09 AM
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 resident smart mouth Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 335,672 |
QUOTE(yukichan @ Jan 1 2006, 9:12 PM) Agreed.. When 2 people break up things don't always become really different..Like me and my ex..We broke up, but we're super close friends. ^^ true if the person really did care about you....and you cared about them... you'll stick around whether youre dating or not... when you care about someone you find ways to keep them around... even if it is just as a friend 
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