Am i cheating?, =( ... |
Am i cheating?, =( ... |
Jan 1 2006, 05:53 PM
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Me and my boyfriend were going out for 2 years. and its both our longest relationship. But it seems as if he doesn't care so much anymore, no more aniversarys, no more late night calls. He even forgot my number.
Theres this other boy in my dance class thats so sweet and he told me he liked me. I think i like him to, but i didn't tell him yet. I feel like im cheating on my boyfriend. I dont know how to tell him that i wanna breakup with him. I dont want him to think im dumping him for someone else. How should I tell him without hurting him? |
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Jan 1 2006, 07:24 PM
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Okay...here's my advice.
First, ARE you dumping him for someone else? Or is it only because you feel he's grown distant? If this new guy hadn't come up, would you still want to dump him? If you've been with your boyfriend for 2 years, I don't think that ending it to go with another guy you just met is a good idea. Unless your current boyfriend...really doesn't show he cares for you at ALL. And don't lie to yourself that it's the reason if it's because you're interested in this new guy. 2 years sounds like a pretty good relationship...ending it just to meet someone new doesn't seem very fair. But if you really think you want to break up with him, tell him how you really feel. (Unless you're dumping him for someone else...don't tell him that.) It seems from what you've said that he's growing distant from you...let him know. Be open to what he says; try to say it...as nicely as possible. ._. But like the person above said, I don't think you should give up your current boyfriend for this new guy. Two years. Think about it. Have a talk with him about your relationship. |
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PO0PO0x3 Am i cheating? Jan 1 2006, 05:53 PM
iNyCxShoRT Hold on for one second. You said-two years. Wow; t... Jan 1 2006, 07:24 PM
_sarcastic_ wait, ask yourself this would you be dumping this ... Jan 1 2006, 07:29 PM
Lo Mein Never give up the one you love for the one you lik... Jan 1 2006, 07:39 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b ^ Like Lo Mein said. Dont leave the one you love f... Jan 1 2006, 07:42 PM
Lo Mein ^ Yeah thats the quote I was talking about! Jan 1 2006, 07:58 PM
Chii no it's not cheating but blah blah blah. just ... Jan 1 2006, 07:59 PM
Lo Mein QUOTE(Chii @ Jan 1 2006, 8:59 PM)no it's ... Jan 1 2006, 08:02 PM
sharpandcuddly QUOTE(Chii @ Jan 1 2006, 7:59 PM)no it's ... Jan 1 2006, 09:26 PM
Dragonfly_babe Have u tried talking to your boyfriend first and l... Jan 1 2006, 08:01 PM
yukichan Talk to your boyfriend and see why he's neglec... Jan 1 2006, 09:19 PM![]() ![]() |