My Catch-22, read up Options

[fameONE]

It isn't often that I post anything pertaining to my relationships online, other than poking fun at my exes. And it certainly isn't often that I ask anyone for their input. However, I'm havign a hard time truly understanding females right now.

Here's the issue...

My style, my swagger, my charm (if you may) all send signs to women that I am a 'sexual deviant' of sorts. From the most innocent bookworms to 35 year old women; they all seem to think I'm all about sowing my oats. Everything changes when I wont' go past flirting and then it dawns on these women that I actually want something substantial. As soon as they learn this, they're ghost.

So, I find myself sometimes sleeping with women just to satisfy them. And no matter how good or bad it is, I'm still left with a feeling of utter disappointment because I'm longing for something that feels so out of reach. Is it so much to ask to find an intelligent, compassionate and well roudned woman that I can relate to and trust? I guess so.

Input.

[Comptine]

i'm sorry. the way you wrote it was just too cute and funny.

i would think that girls would be put off by your confidence. over confidence in one's sex appeal often means that person isn't serious at all about any relationship. maybe sometimes you did meet a potential girlfriend but they saw you as a player and just used you as one.

i suggest you talk to your girl friends and ask if they think any of their other girl friends is a good match for you. you know, sort of a friend of a friend thing. that way your friend helps mediate a bit in the relationship, giving them a different first impression than you would give yourself.

if all else fails, you got tons of CB girls willing to be your other half.