jealous of ex's, is it normal? |
 Dec 29 2005, 08:59 PM
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is being jealous of your bf/gf's ex(es) normal? why should you feel bad, if they dont care about them anymore? (its different if they do still care, i suppose) what can you do to prevent it?
i can understand why he feels bad when he thinks about me and my ex doing stuff together.. i mean, i was his first kiss but he wasn't mine.. but he gets jealous every time my ex(first boyfriend) is mentioned, even though we dont talk anymore. is there anything i can say to stop him from thinking about it / being jealous about it? i really dont want him to be hurt like this from something that doesnt even exist anymore. |
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Jan 1 2006, 11:53 AM
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either the guy is jealous or the girl is jealous [after a relationship] they care 100%... see me & my ex, its been 1 and a half months for me to try to get over him; b/c soon i had a new bf i didnt tell anybody, but a few friends knew.. he was the 3rd person to know.. b/c of course i still cared, and he said he wouldnt 'move on' until i had a bf... since we broke up, i already had a new bf.. but didnt tell him, but it felt wrong that i was keeping this from him b/c i guess he was still waiting... i told him eventually and he was kinda jealous... he says 'not jealous' but 'feeling bad' that we go out [like ohh man]... so really for both of us being exes, jealousy plays with both of us, even it means teasing [which he ALWAYS does]
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anoniez jealous of ex's Dec 29 2005, 08:59 PM
anubis it's not a pleasant feeling to him, not to men... Dec 29 2005, 09:22 PM anoniez oops.. when i said mentioned, i didnt mean that it... Dec 29 2005, 09:35 PM flaymzofice Like anubis said, it's mostly to do with what ... Dec 29 2005, 09:50 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ Right, but think of it this way:
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anubis QUOTE(xoxo_koala_kisses_ @ Dec 29 2005, 8:58 ... Dec 29 2005, 10:07 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ Whoops. I guess I got a little confused. It's ... Dec 29 2005, 10:11 PM anoniez hahah, its ok; im sure i can turn that around to s... Dec 29 2005, 10:33 PM krnxswat It's okay. I'm kind of in that situation (... Dec 29 2005, 11:25 PM Chii ugh, my ex used to be like that. i know what it... Dec 29 2005, 11:38 PM silver rain Yeah, I'm in a similar situation but reversed.... Dec 30 2005, 12:51 AM LittleLulu i've never dated any men who've had ex... Dec 30 2005, 05:55 AM _sarcastic_ QUOTE(Chii @ Dec 29 2005, 11:38 PM)
sometimes... Dec 30 2005, 10:47 AM da_SALSA I understand your boyfriend's feelings. I disl... Dec 31 2005, 12:42 AM Zlatko .... Feb 1 2006, 11:09 AM lilxl0ser maybe he needs some assurance. lols just tell him ... Feb 1 2006, 02:10 PM FoxBandCutie08 My boyfriend is like that, he likes to joke about ... Feb 1 2006, 05:36 PM |
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