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 Dec 31 2005, 06:35 PM
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It isn't often that I post anything pertaining to my relationships online, other than poking fun at my exes. And it certainly isn't often that I ask anyone for their input. However, I'm havign a hard time truly understanding females right now.
Here's the issue... My style, my swagger, my charm (if you may) all send signs to women that I am a 'sexual deviant' of sorts. From the most innocent bookworms to 35 year old women; they all seem to think I'm all about sowing my oats. Everything changes when I wont' go past flirting and then it dawns on these women that I actually want something substantial. As soon as they learn this, they're ghost. So, I find myself sometimes sleeping with women just to satisfy them. And no matter how good or bad it is, I'm still left with a feeling of utter disappointment because I'm longing for something that feels so out of reach. Is it so much to ask to find an intelligent, compassionate and well roudned woman that I can relate to and trust? I guess so. Input. |
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| *Zatanna* |
Dec 31 2005, 07:00 PM
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I wish I could answer all of your questions. But I'm the last person in the world that should be offering any type of advice or input as it relates to relationships.
(I have the opposite issue - guys don't generally approach me because they think I'm too cerebral and intense). Try volunteering in the community. The women there will more than likely be genuine. =) Bookstores are great as well. Depending on personality, it might not be a bad place to meet someone. |
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Dec 31 2005, 07:12 PM
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QUOTE(Zatanna @ Dec 31 2005, 6:00 PM) I wish I could answer all of your questions. But I'm the last person in the world that should be offering any type of advice or input as it relates to relationships. (I have the opposite issue - guys don't generally approach me because they think I'm too cerebral and intense). Try volunteering in the community. The women there will more than likely be genuine. =) Bookstores are great as well. Depending on personality, it might not be a bad place to meet someone.  I met a woman while volunteering for the Hurricane Katrina Relief and I meet women at Barnes & Noble on a weekly basis. With other guys, they may be sensible and down to earth, but with me; all that changes. 
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