parents and dating... problem |
 Dec 30 2005, 02:13 PM
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Ok, well... my parents are toatlly retarted... they tell me that I'm not allowd to date or have a boyfriend until I'm 16, and they are super over-protective with me... but there's this guy, and we only met about 4 months ago, but we are already best friends and so close, much closer than I've been with anyone in my whole life. And we talked about relationships. He told me that he likes me, I told him that I like him back, but he told me that he doesn't want to go out with me or anyone yet, that he doesn't want a girlfriend. He says that once you go out, when you break up you won't be as good of friends. Which is really true. It makes me happy, because I know that it gives me more time.. he doesn't know that I can;t have a boyfriend till I'm 16. But I'm afraid that by the time I'm 16 (about a year and a half from now) that he'll already have a girlfriend and I won't be able to have him, or it'll be too late and he won't like me anymore, he'll like someone else... and if I disobey my parents, they'll know, I can't keep that a secret, so what should I do?
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Dec 31 2005, 03:33 PM
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When I was young, my mom said I couldn't date until I was done University and have a stable job already. While my dad always say that I will be the first to marry and that would be when I'm 20 or something. Geez
 Anyway, my mom said I can date, as long as it doesn't make my marks drop or anything. She told me that a few weeks ago, when I was really depressed for the past few months, over a huge crush. Well they all met him like 2 days ago, and because of my bratty sibling, they always thought there was something going on between the dude and I. Not sure what's going on between us two, but if they are teasing me and such pratically everyday, I have no clue what will happen if we do go out together. Sometimes I get the feeling that I am allowed to, while at other times, I'm not allowed to. It's so annoying! I never had a boyfriend so I never had to worry about my parents finding out. Heh >< Good because I don't have to worry. Bad because I really like the dude I like now. He knows and such, meh..Not important to this topic. |
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shadowchild parents and dating... problem Dec 30 2005, 02:13 PM
Chii oh please, you do not have it so bad. my parents t... Dec 30 2005, 03:03 PM pastellove_ ^ i thought i had it bad.
mine says not until univ... Dec 30 2005, 03:33 PM Shortiiex why don't you try friends with benfits?
you ca... Dec 30 2005, 04:35 PM Ilaem Most parents say that "You're not allowed... Dec 30 2005, 05:01 PM _sarcastic_ 16, is not very far from your age now thinking tha... Dec 30 2005, 05:17 PM shadowchild but it isn't that easy... my parents know I li... Dec 30 2005, 05:56 PM
_sarcastic_ ^i agree. it's not the end of the world if you... Dec 30 2005, 10:46 PM dahding oh no. ur going to not have a chance with some guy... Dec 30 2005, 10:21 PM yukichan QUOTE(dahding @ Dec 30 2005, 5:21 PM)oh no. u... Jan 1 2006, 09:12 PM synthetic truths QUOTE(yukichan @ Jan 1 2006, 9:12 PM)Agreed..... Jan 2 2006, 01:09 AM Endless_Symphony your parents aren't retarded for restricting w... Dec 30 2005, 11:05 PM da_SALSA Well you don't have it that bad. I'm curre... Dec 31 2005, 12:26 AM Trumpetman4eva my parents actually encourage me in getting a girl... Dec 31 2005, 01:41 AM anubis QUOTE(Trumpetman4eva @ Dec 31 2005, 12:41 AM)... Dec 31 2005, 02:00 AM deus_ex_machina QUOTE(shadowchild @ Dec 31 2005, 3:13 AM)Ok, ... Dec 31 2005, 02:22 AM shadowchild ok, some of you guys are just mean, but some of yo... Dec 31 2005, 10:26 AM dahding QUOTE(shadowchild @ Dec 31 2005, 11:26 AM)ok,... Dec 31 2005, 10:31 AM mouse_3k how old are you by the way? If your like younger t... Dec 31 2005, 03:24 PM sayitaintso just wait until 16, don't rush.
if he's sw... Dec 31 2005, 10:25 PM synthetic truths with my parents i had to wait till i was 16...whic... Jan 1 2006, 07:30 PM shadowchild thank you guys, that helps a lot... I mean, we can... Jan 2 2006, 11:32 AM |
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