jealous of ex's, is it normal? |
 Dec 29 2005, 08:59 PM
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is being jealous of your bf/gf's ex(es) normal? why should you feel bad, if they dont care about them anymore? (its different if they do still care, i suppose) what can you do to prevent it?
i can understand why he feels bad when he thinks about me and my ex doing stuff together.. i mean, i was his first kiss but he wasn't mine.. but he gets jealous every time my ex(first boyfriend) is mentioned, even though we dont talk anymore. is there anything i can say to stop him from thinking about it / being jealous about it? i really dont want him to be hurt like this from something that doesnt even exist anymore. |
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Dec 31 2005, 12:42 AM
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I understand your boyfriend's feelings. I dislike my boyfriend's ex so much. I mean he has a lot of ex's but, this one...I really dislike her. It's because she was a lot of his firsts, and I was there to see it too. The fact that they shared a lot of things togther makes me so jealous. She won't leave us alone...well until lately when I told her off. She spreads gossip about me and tries to seduce him. But, thankfully, he hates her for what she's done w/ both of us.
Just please don't mention the ex, and if you do--assure him in a way that'll ease his worry. |
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anoniez jealous of ex's Dec 29 2005, 08:59 PM
anubis it's not a pleasant feeling to him, not to men... Dec 29 2005, 09:22 PM anoniez oops.. when i said mentioned, i didnt mean that it... Dec 29 2005, 09:35 PM flaymzofice Like anubis said, it's mostly to do with what ... Dec 29 2005, 09:50 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ Right, but think of it this way:
You're prett... Dec 29 2005, 09:58 PM
anubis QUOTE(xoxo_koala_kisses_ @ Dec 29 2005, 8:58 ... Dec 29 2005, 10:07 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ Whoops. I guess I got a little confused. It's ... Dec 29 2005, 10:11 PM anoniez hahah, its ok; im sure i can turn that around to s... Dec 29 2005, 10:33 PM krnxswat It's okay. I'm kind of in that situation (... Dec 29 2005, 11:25 PM Chii ugh, my ex used to be like that. i know what it... Dec 29 2005, 11:38 PM silver rain Yeah, I'm in a similar situation but reversed.... Dec 30 2005, 12:51 AM LittleLulu i've never dated any men who've had ex... Dec 30 2005, 05:55 AM _sarcastic_ QUOTE(Chii @ Dec 29 2005, 11:38 PM)
sometimes... Dec 30 2005, 10:47 AM pinayprincess either the guy is jealous or the girl is jealous [... Jan 1 2006, 11:53 AM Zlatko .... Feb 1 2006, 11:09 AM lilxl0ser maybe he needs some assurance. lols just tell him ... Feb 1 2006, 02:10 PM FoxBandCutie08 My boyfriend is like that, he likes to joke about ... Feb 1 2006, 05:36 PM |
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